My ex-girlfriend keeps calling me and crap. Last night she calls twice in a 5 minute period leaves a voice-mail because I refused to pick up that said " Hey ummmm......... I guess if you want to call me back you can I'll ttyl"
Then 15 minutes after that texts me saying " I really hope you're not planning on ignoring me :( "
Then first thing this morning she called me again on her way to work and I didnt pick up still.
This pisses me off, she tells me its over were never getting back together, but as soon as I back away some she pulls this bs. What the hell is her problem? I don't believe her when she says no never again because she WON'T GO AWAY.
2007-11-21 01:05:39 · 14 answers · asked by Advice 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You've already correctly assessed where she's coming from...she didn't want to be "rid" of you so much as she wanted you to change, or something of that nature. If you really want to be rid of her, you may need to make yourself inaccessible...change cell numbers,change email accounts, etc. Good luck.
2007-11-21 01:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wanted you to pine away for her, and since you aren't she is having regrets. She may have thought she had the upper hand in this and by telling you that you will never get back together, she may have been hoping you would be begging her for another chance, but you didn't, so now she is like "Oh ****, I screwed up" If you really don't want to get back with her or play her games, then ignore her calls and her texts, and she will eventually get the hint and go away (if she is a normal person anyway).
2007-11-21 09:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's a stalker and an unstable person with issues. Tell her to stop calling you and all of that. If she continues, slap her with a no harrassment order from the police and get on with your life without the drama.
If you want to work things out with her, then call her and sit down and discuss things. If not, then go with the first part of this answer. Don't let her affect you. Just because she's nuts, it doesn't mean she gets to drive you crazy with her.
Yikes!
2007-11-21 09:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound angry and probably for good reason. You need to ask yourself, are you angry because she broke up with you, or angry because she keeps calling and you want her to leave you alone? You did not say why she broke up. But it does sound as if she regrets breaking up with you and probably did so to make a statement, a statement you are not willing to take. Some girls have a way of playing games with good intentions, they want to force their guy to see things their way, and when it does not work they are left hurt and confused. Guys resent this as being played and wish their girls would just learn to be more direct with what it is they want. No offence, but you sound way over insensitive and maybe this is why your girl finds it hard to approach you directly and instead does it by breaking up. She wanted to see if you cared enough to use her break up as an incentive to work things out. It sounds as if you do not care enough and she might as well find this out now. Don't worry, in time she will get the hint after you avoid so many of her attempts to get in touch with you.
2007-11-21 09:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to TELL her to go away. Answer the phone the next time she calls and tell her it's not a good idea for you to keep communicating. She obviously thinks it is. She won't know any differently until you tell her. If she still calls and/or texts, then ignore her.
2007-11-21 09:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in writing (or text message) to leave you alone and if she contacts you again,you can file a harrassment suit against her with the police dept.
Or just change your cell number, usually the cell phone co. will change once with no charge.
Or just ignore her and eventually she'll go away.
2007-11-21 09:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by philosophy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the poor girl still wants you! She probably didn't really mean to break up with you. Now she's sorry. Talk to her....no need for dramas here. She is hurting. Give her a chance to tell you how she feels, and see if there's a chance to save the relationship. If not....you must tell her it's over!
2007-11-21 09:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you, twelve? Her problem is that you keep communicating with her. Tell her that you are done, and not to contact you in any way. Then ignore her completely, as if she doesn't exist. Eventually she'll get tired if you aren't feeding her game playing.
2007-11-21 09:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I remember you from yesterday...this girl is a game player and she will not be happy unless there is drama. She creates it and obviously you don't like it. Good for you for ignoring her...she broke up with you....said she doesn't want to be with you....however she is always with you or calling etc....this is a definition of insanity...unless you like this type of drama...you should run baby run.
2007-11-21 09:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Ali C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's PREGO and needs to tell you....
or
Maybe she's looking for the hookup and you're the one
2007-11-21 09:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋