2007-11-20 23:40:18 · 25 answers · asked by girl ur looking for! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well he have hurt me physically and emotionally..and after all i still long to love him, lie in his bed, share wonderful thoughts.
but i know that ill be hurt again once i would try to be with him again. but i also long to feel happiness with him...
2007-11-21 19:48:33 · update #1
thanks guy for sharing your thought...
i like to know your experience too go ahead and share it by answering my question...
thanks for finding my question interesting!
2007-11-22 00:53:55 · update #2
It depends on if you can let go of the past and forget about it or if you would dwell on it and use it against the other person b/c if you are going to that then the relationship would never work. Also make sure that they understand that they hurt you and that they will not do it again.
2007-11-21 01:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa De Marino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one always hopes that love has not been wasted. Unfortunately most love is wasted, and the rare occasions in my life when it wasn't , those times, I had other folks intervene and remove the person I cared about from my area, as in to Houston from LA. Or I got orders, Once I was really head over heels with a girl in my senior yr in High School. When she dumped me, it was painful, so when I received a letter from her, three yrs later with an apology, it was touching, but at that time I had orders to Cam Ranh Bay. RSV, and she had become a hooker. It's a terrible puzzle. It would seem that all types of love affairs end up this way. So if someone has hurt you, but recovers and wants to try to do better, go ahead, it's worth the risk, but set them straight at the onset, that any weirdness directed at you, and it's goodbye, nothing in writing, no tears, just good bye. After all, your not fresh meat for someone to mince. Stay ready till they've proved they are for real, and not playing you for a fool.
2007-11-20 23:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tacit Hue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done so. Love is a wonderful thing if understood. I believe the world is full of love and that everyone has the potential to love. It's just that some are not open to it. I have been hurt so bad and loved back. Forgiving is the best for me because it sets me free. I just don't make the same mistakes with that person. There is a fine line between taking care of yourself and taking care of others. Do not put others needs before yours. Being a loving person has it's rewards.
2007-11-20 23:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, if he disrespected you so much to hurt you that badly than he probally never had the right kind of respect for you to begin with and probally never will. Once you disrespect someone it gets easier and easier...example: if you are gonna be a doormat expect to get stepped on. Sooo it depends on the situation, is that person truly remorseful and was it pure selfishness that caused it or meer victim of circumstance? How long ago it happend what they have done to proove themselves and have YOU "healed" from it or are you still having an open wound issue? If they love you they will respect you ALL of you and why settle for less? Remember though everyone is human and all human is NOT perfect. I'd move on.
2007-11-20 23:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say, i do. My hubby has cheated on me countless times and everytime i put down all the hurt and anger to forgive him. Too bad he still doesnt appreciate. If that person really repents then it's worthwhile loving him back. If not then dont waste your time and efforts and love. Some people just dont learn from their mistakes. Or to say they dont even know it's a mistake.
2007-11-21 02:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by le_snowangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is fine but dont be blind, if he hurt you once he'll do it again. Dont go back down that road unless you are a gluten for punishment. Stay strong and keep it moving, he's not worth it. Good Luck!
2007-11-20 23:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by Doctor feel good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help who you love,
some people are in such violent relationships but if the victim loves the person that is doing the hurting nothing can be done.
i have been hurt in the past by my now b/f but i still love him with every part of me.
2007-11-20 23:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if the person has changed, and not only for a few days, weeks or even moths. That person must show a real change. Otherwise, its a waste of time.
2007-11-21 08:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by NA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was hurt really bad in the past, did I still love him? not after he hurt me... I woke up and realized he really didn't love me, so I moved on and stopped loving him... I certainly would not stay w/ someone who hurt me... ever... a person who hurts you does not really love you! and that's the truth... someone who hurts another deserves to be alone...
2007-11-20 23:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes if you really do love them yes I would and I have. what hurt me the most the day after I got married my husband went to jail for 7 months and that did hurt me alot I didn't even know he was going to jail.
2007-11-21 00:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋