...and if so, what happened (or didnt happen) in your relationship, to make you feel that way?
2007-11-20 23:15:05 · 25 answers · asked by ♂ Equibrilium ♀ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope.My first husband cheated and abused me,but if i wouldn't have married him i would not have my two kids and they are what makes my life complete.Don't regret this one either.He has showed love and respect and loyalty.Something that was all new to me,and i love it.
2007-11-20 23:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by lollypop 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love my wife, our kids and the life we have. I love being married. The problem is once she got the ring sex became a rare occurance. My only regret about marriage is the lack of intimacy. It is a lot of hard work for both people. If something were to happen I can easily say I wouldn't get married again, but I don't regret getting married.
2007-11-21 08:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I married the right person for me. The thing is is that we are both such high strung type A over achiever personalities, that at times what draws us to each other also ignites our tempers! It's just an all around intense relationship. Filled with lots of love though, the deepest in the world. We really know how to make each other tic. I love my husband, he said I was the only woman for him.
2007-11-21 08:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never regretted marrying my husband. Once you find the right one there is never no regrets! Marriage is hard, it is work! But the benefits are so great. My husband accepts all of my flaws, and loves me anyway! He is a great provider, great father(and step father) and most of all he is my best friend!! He puts the smile on face and the spark in my eye! We work together as a team to get through the day!! Good Luck!
2007-11-21 07:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by cheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! But its way too late for me! I got married to young and stupid. I had no clue what so ever, what kind of woman I was jumping into and now I am suffering the consequnces of a somewhat unhappy, super extremely boring marriage life. The only thing that bring extreme happiness to me is my kiddos and not my wife. I am too chicken to get a separation/divorce. I see that I don't have it as bad as others marriage couples. Other married couples, have it a lot worse than me by far.
2007-11-21 11:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by pain_of_unhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone regrets getting married at some point. it cant all be sweetness and light. the secret is to work hard at getting through the tough times and try to work out why it feels bad. even fancying other people is normal because they are different to what you have everyday its what you do or dont do about it that counts. it is all about familiarity and routine. if you are in a rut then leave the rut and find something you can both enjoy thats different and try to make sure its together.
2007-11-21 07:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by fredbloggs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously when one has been thru an ugly divorce one regrets getting married.
I don't regret my children.
In my case my was accused many time of abusing our children by social workers and doctors.
She was sent to shrinks and mental hospitals since the experts decided the abuse was the result of the fact that she was and is mentally ill, in their opinion anyway.
Then once she in a mental hospital she begins to accuse me of abuse. Long after multiple social workers watched our family closely and saw how we interacted with the children and the experts decided she was the problem and I was not.
Once out of the mental hospital she started calling 911 and going to court accusing me of abusing her and abusing the children.
You can't get much worse than that, and at least in the states the police and court are extremely biased against men.
However my children said "We want to live with Dad" and so the courts agreed and ordered her to pay me child support.
then she became a dead beat mom.
Yet the biased courts refused to punish her for lying about me or for failure to pay child support.
And that's why.
Ten years later the children want nothing to do with their Mom
2007-11-21 07:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. But then we were together for 5 years prior to make sure it was what we wanted. We have now been married over 7 years.
2007-11-21 08:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,i think i was ready in all aspects of a married life.I know that there will be a lot of trials along the way because there is no perfect marriage, no perfect partner but im just praying that we both grow up together and love each other more.
2007-11-21 07:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first marriage I regretted before we got finished with the ceremony. I was young, stupid, and had no business getting married.
My second marriage I don't regret one bit - we have a wonderful relationship that is based on trust and communication.
2007-11-21 07:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by Susie D 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋