Ok so me and my ex have been over for just over a month now, a few weeks ago he got drunk and started telling me that he regretted ever finishing me and that he still loves me, obviously i still love him, and he said when we finished that maybe in a few years we could get back together and that we will always be friends i love him but im scared he will hurt me again, and now i think hes seeing one of his mates he seems to have gotten over me should i move on and forget about him? it breaks my heart to think that hes probs gotten over me so quickly and that im still in love with him.
im so confused and dont know what to do any help?
2007-11-20 23:11:15 · 14 answers · asked by MissJay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You shouldn't sit around waiting for him to come around. If he's is dating already, that's on him. Yea it may hurt a lil for him to move on so quickly, but thats most guys for you. Its like they need someone there to fill a void, even when they are not ready to settle down.
This doesnt mean that you have to jump into another relationship either. Obviously, you are hurt and are not ready to subject yourself to another relationship. Just relax, make new friends, hang out., but dont get into another relationship until you are ready. And even if your ex does come back around, i would hold off on getting back with him. Right now he doesnt seem to know what he wants. Take it slow.
2007-11-20 23:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by Real Talk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would catch him when he isnt drunk and talk to him about his feelings for you and if he wonts to truly get back together and work things out ! but dont waste youre life away waiting on him ok life is too short ! if he wonts to try again then do it but keep youre eyes open at all times and if he is just playing head games with you then you need to move on and find someone that will cherish you and love you not hurt you
2007-11-20 23:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by lil momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sit around waiting for a few years. You are just going to be someone convenient that he can fall back on if he has no one else. Move on and find a great guy that will love and respect you.
2007-11-20 23:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you nonetheless have emotions on your ex? in case you dont have emotions, dont complication/sense to blame too plenty! he's your ex boyfriend, you're absolute to consistently think of a few issues he does are candy. Ive gotta say nevertheless....... if your boyfriend unearths out i do no longer think of he would be happy! in line with probability it may be ultimate in case you instructed him your self, i think of he'd understand greater in case you heard it from you and he could even have the skill to help if youre perplexed approximately all of it! :) i desire it seems ok!
2016-11-12 07:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by cauley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still liked you then he would of told you that he still liked you when he was sober, not when he was drunk.
I think the best thing for you 2 do is stop thinking about him and find a man that really loves you
2007-11-20 23:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, it will be hard, no doubt. However, it will be OK and you will meet other guys and have fun. If he is the one, he will come back into your life. If not, you will find another. Just do not spend much time trying rekindle old flames!
2007-11-21 00:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by M X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may want to be with you in the future, and if its meant to be then it will happen, but maybe its best if u both try and get on with ur lives 4the mean time and see where it takes u. i doubt hes over u, probably just a bit confused at what he wants
2007-11-20 23:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by lil_ms_chocoholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well younger guys can be like that the reason is
women mature faster than guys for the most part.
yes i think you should move on and if he really wants to be with you than he ............HE WILL PUT IN THE EFFORT.
thou you still love him it seems that he has moved on and if that is the case then so should you
2007-11-20 23:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by kingml213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he confess his feelings to you when hes not drunk?
If he does theen he may still have feelings for you, but just give it time. If after time you make it back together then its meant to be, and if not call me
2007-11-20 23:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try again. If he still has problems offer to help him.
2007-11-20 23:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋