I have a very very high libido and am planning to discontinue masturbating, since it is taking up a lot of my time (i am a masturbation-addict). however, if i don't even masturbate for a single day, i cannot concentrate in my work. is the lack of concentration due to stopping of masturbation or am i only having psychology that "stopping masturbation" is causing the problem???
Pls dont advice me to masturbate even "once"...... masturbating once does not satisfy me at all.... it is "null & void" to masturbate only once.....
Pls help... what should i do to control my libido????
thanx!!!
2007-11-20 21:25:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Hey rahul....!!
High libido is a sign of really good reproductive health, so stop asking what to do abt ur libido..as 4 the rest of ur prblm.....try concentrating more on your other hobbies...and believe me.... there are no such side effects as such .... only lack of concentration and a few other minor ones......
2007-11-20 23:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dark Claw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will go mad.
By the sound of it, you are bored with your penis, or somewhat out of touch, no joke intended.
Masturbatory habits can get out of control, usually from purely having an opportunity to rather than anything else, but you may have an addicktion that needs sorting out.
Try to be more realistic with your habit and cut down slowly, as if you were quitting smoking for example, and put off the first one until lunchtime, though preferably not at work.
You are probably unsatisfied with masturbating because you do it too often, or have a guilt complex.
Either way, it isn't a bad thing to do, just try and share with a partner in future - but more importantly, listen to your body.
2007-11-20 21:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by MikeD2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off no matter what anybody says is is perfectly normal to masturbate as much as you would like. You aren't gonna go blind and your penis isn't gonna fall off but your penis can get a little sore from doing it too much. I would stick to maybe just twice a day if you feel the need. I am gonna assume that "reaching home" means ejaculating, and the pain involved is from your body trying to eject semen that isn't there. This isn't anything that you should be afraid. The cure is to ease up on the masturbation, give your body some time to produce the amount of semen that you release and your pain should go away.
2016-05-24 21:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm addicted too. Three times a day is not bad. I do it much more than that. I don't believe a 3 a day habit is addiction. You won't be able to stop. I have found things were worse when I tried to stop. Addicted or not you are going to be a masturbater the rest of your life. The best you can do is give in, enjoy it and find ways to manage it. Stop blaming masturbation for things you are responsible for.
2007-11-21 02:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of stoping completely (which is harder than quitting smoking and there is no nicotene patch to help either) why not do it oncein the morning and once in the evening for three to four weeks and see if you do alright with only twice a day. If you have to set a time and stick to it so your penis gets used to being controlled in getting satisfaction. If that works, then see how it goes to only do it once a day - either mornign or afternoon. And if you get down to once or twice a day you will be fine even if you never manage to get lower.
2007-11-21 11:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been masturbating regularly, you will find it almost impossible to stop. It's a natural, pleasurable activity that most people practice.
My advice would be to find other things to fill your day. Do lots of sports and do not put yourself in any position where you are alone to think about sex.
Try just masturbating before bed. Good luck.
2007-11-20 22:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all in your mind!!!Masturbating is ok but not that much,the side effect is might weaken your virility.Make yourself busy and pay attention to some other important things.Dont carried away by your sexual appetite which can harm your health later.Remember too much for everything even love can kill you (sorry "queens") and watch your food,there are foods which contains aphrodisiacs like asparagus,onion,mushroom,spices these are also to consider..
2007-11-20 22:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only side effects i know of/have expierienced is that i cannot concentrate, or i will get very moody, or angry at people. Its perfectly healthy to masturbate, and as long as its not interphering with your live, i see no reason to stop.
2007-11-20 21:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you are just used to masturbating lots of times a day and has gotten you to always think bout it and you concentrate on the fact that you need to do it
just think of something else
get a hobby and stop looking at chicks ***...
2007-11-20 21:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by ¸.•*´`*♥Lorenzo¸.•*´`*♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is going to get deleted very soon
So Iet me give you some advice, find a girl and F**k her. Trust me it is nothing like masturbating and will get rid of your "libido".
2007-11-20 21:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by Enigma 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋