i am 40 and a lady that also works around me at times is somewhat flirty. she is alot younger, only 18. not to say that i dont like it, i love it. she is very cute and nice. and she is very mature for her age. i thought she was just being nice but the past few weeks she has been calling me a sweetie and i think going out of her way to talk to me. and it is nice having a attractive young lady doing that but i really dont get it. i must be as old as her father. i get the feeling she wants me to ask her out. she has made it very clear that she lives alone and has no close friends or family around. she is very nice but even at my age i am not sure what she wants or what i should do. i am also going to be alone this thanksgiving, i have no family within 400 miles. should i invite her over for thanksgiving dinner maybe? . the bad thing is that she is very attractive and mature for her age and i will surely make a pass at her. just say what you would do in my situation.
2007-11-20 18:44:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
to answer some of youre responses. i am not wealthy. i drive an older truck and i have no great job in the company. we just talk alot when we work together and she told me she will be spending thanksgiving alone because her family lives far way and i told her that my family also lives out of state. and no i am not married or have any current involvement with anyone. i was just asking because i really wonder if it would be wrong to ask her over and find out what happens. at my age i know when a lady is flirting and she surely is. its just that much of an age difference that confuses me. she is a very attractive young lady. why would she want a guy twice her age? and as i said i have no great job or nice car. she knows that.
2007-11-20 20:52:53 · update #1
Joey ask her to dinner for thanksgiving ..age is not an issue.My husband of 20 yrs was 20 yrs older than I was we had very little when we meet but it didnt matter. the only reason Im not married to him anymore is bacaeuse he died ....go for give it a shot hon! Good luck,,Lucinda
2007-11-21 09:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds great and I strongly believe age is just a number. Most importantly she is of legal age! I think it would be a great idea to invite her over for thanksgiving. Even if she had plans with any of her family I'm sure that would break the ice and get your foot in the door moving your comfort level a step up. You won't know unless you ask. Go for it and good luck.
2007-11-20 18:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Younger people tend to be a lot bubblier and happy about everything. They seem to be closer to people in general. If you already think that you will make a pass at her, don't invite her over. (You have to be very sure that her intentions are to get up close and personal with you.) Can you invite a group of people from work for thanksgiving...including her? It would give you the opportunity to get to know her on a more personal level without possibly committing career suicide.
2007-11-20 18:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by southwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you invite her over for thanksgiving, ask her what her plans are, chances are she's going to be with family and if you ask her she might find that weird. I think it's very possible she has a "crush" on you but I don't think it's a good idea to get involved with a co-worker. People talk and pretty soon everyone will know and how will you look to your co-workers if they think you have been messing around with a 18 year old girl.
2007-11-20 18:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by xoxo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you married? If yes, get rid of that flirt lady. don't let this mess destroy your family, you need to respect the sanctity of your marriage. Shes just 18, her feelings is just an infatuation and at anytime, her mind can change. If your're single, think it over a thousand times.
2007-11-20 18:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two lonely people looking to share a holiday.It sounds good to me.However,I wouldn't rush to make a pass at her on the first date.Get to know her more.Romance her and show her a nice time.Then watch where it goes.Good luck.
2007-11-20 18:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by Impact 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something is funny here ..do you have a lot of money? nice car? lot of influence in the company? Maybe she is just being nice ... I would steer clear of involvement here ...there is no way this is going to work long term and you will land up being embarrassed by all of this in the long run..
2007-11-20 18:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by MeInUSA 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm 42 and if a young man came on to me like that.........
I'd eat it up!! I don't know if I would become serious with him but I'd enjoy the attention. If you feel like asking her out, go or it. Best of luck to you!
2007-11-20 18:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your rich forget it
she wants your money
just like anna nichole smith wanted old dudes cash
be careful
hopefully your not married??
invite her over tho
most deff.
just dont hurt yours&hers career!
2007-11-20 18:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
age is only a number
2007-11-20 18:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋