He's 29 in April of 2008. He never knew what he was paying monthly for his car or car insurance/life insurance because his momma took care of that. We lived together for 2 years, and his mom constantly scolded us for eating out too much. She said this because she goes through his letters and does all his banking. When we broke up, she told me he would have saved 10k, but it was all my fault because we kept eating out? LOL. He has to see her once a week, or else she will think something is wrong. Everytime we fight, he runs and tells his mom, and his mom tells him to leave me (rather than communicating and coming to a compromise). He doesn't have any friends (no joke), so does that mean it's ok for him to run to his mom about his relationship problems? His mom is always trash talking other people- making fun of the mentally ill, people on medication, people who aren't all that attractive, people who are different, etc. Yet she is fraudulently milking disability benefits for a bad back
2007-11-20 17:39:56 · 11 answers · asked by chocolate_cat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"Yet she is fraudulently milking disability benefits for a bad back"
OMG, are you married to my husband's brother? lol.. you are in the same situation I am.. she gets $3000 from the VA for a 'bad back'.. I've always wanted to send them pictures of her on her $10,000 harley topless, with her $6,000 boob job.. here's where your money is going! ha.
i bet she eats vicadin like skittles too!
2007-11-20 17:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
MOMMIES BOY!!!! Girl, I wouldn't even think about marrying him!! She will continually be in your business. I bet she knows all about your sex life and everything! Oh that is scary!! No wonder he don't have any friends!! Sounds like Mommie don't want him to have a girlfriend either!! Something is bad wrong with this picture!! The way she acts, can you imagine her being the grandmother to your children? She could teach them how to steal and be mean to people that have problems! RUN girl RUN!!
2007-11-21 02:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Trea (pron.tree) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a typical Mamma's boy. Give him a tight slap and tell him to go tell his mom. These guys are good for nothing. They can't take decisions for themselves. They need to be spoon fed always. If you are trying to get married to this guy, you are committing a very big blunder of your life. Your married life will be jeopardized. People like this are hypocrites. Go find someone who is independent in his thinking and decision making. Taking advice from your in laws or your parents is one thing but if they are giving advice then it is interference and people with big nose always cause problem for others. So kick his *** and go ahead with your own life.
2007-11-21 01:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Awdhesh S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
who do you want him to run too. he has no friends. his goes back to what he knows that will not hurt him in anyway. sweetie you probably need to leave him alone and move on. and yes he is a momma boy with no life. he needs to experience life and get a life with some friends besides you and mom, because you two will constantly fight over him for whatever reason. GodBless
2007-11-21 01:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
what you describe is a momma's boy and he has taken it to the next level above that and would be considered a giant pu*sy. he doesn't see that momma gets off on total control of her 29 year old son,and that is probably all he knows is to be dominated by mommy. tell her to cut the umbilical cord and tell him to go back living with mamma because you are out of there.
it is a gruesome thought, but what happens if she dies or becomes incapable of taking care of herself? this dude will flip out and not know how to do anything.
2007-11-21 01:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Lots of people have others manage their money for them. So would you still have such a problem with that aspect of it if it was someone other than his mother who was doing this?
To me it sounds like part of the problem is that you wanted him to be spending his money on you without restraint or being made aware of how much he was spending.
And don't tell me that you don't go to your girlfriends or family when you have a problem in a relationship. Since you are here then there's no way I'd believe that you wouldn't go airing out your differences to others before you spoke to the guy about them. So he does the same thing, yet you again have a problem.
2007-11-21 01:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jacob A 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Yes, he is a momma's boy, big time. that is probably why he has no friends. I would tell him that what goes on in our home is our business and no one else's. Tell him that you are tired of his mother interfering, and that if things don't change, he is going to lose the only person outside his mother that even cares for him.
By the way, please don't get pregnant yet. Wait to see if he can detact himself from his mother's apron strings.
2007-11-21 01:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hell yes he's a mommas boy i have a brother just like that.
2007-11-21 01:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Travis S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah totally mommas boy. ive dated a few just like that.
2007-11-21 01:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by michelle b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that was a very bad choice.
2007-11-21 01:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by orderly logic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋