if u agree / disagree plz share with me the reason !
2007-11-20 17:19:28 · 14 answers · asked by Brilliant Queen (BQ)_forever !!! 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yup i agree with you...one cannot solve problems or reach solutions by just whining and complaining about it....nor can anybody reach their goals by just thinking about them...actions say much more than mere words or thoughts...time spent on whining could've been time used in acting....however, people are emotional beings....and as such...their initial reaction to frustrations, problems and disappointments is to complain profusely...give them time to recover...and then they start taking action....maybe the whining helps to propel them to action? lol....
2007-11-20 17:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ive seen to many people who whine that end up getting what I want, when I face it with courage. I really say neither, face life with the thought your going to do the right thing, confidence and follow your heart.
2007-11-21 01:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree,ive faced two major tragedies,and countless obstacles in my life...but i am truly grateful for what i still have.ive spent time whining and crying (always by myself) its counterproductive and i end up with a bad headache.nothing can change the past its how you deal with the present that can impact your future in a positive,or negative way.i have learnt to be brave and courageous these last few years because you can either go under,or go on.
2007-11-21 02:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More important than facing life with courage is to be prepared to 'deal with life 'as it unfolds,every day. Real time life demands few occasions to show courage and mostly needs our willingness to deal with it in a befitting and proper manner.Whining is for evaders and avoiders and not for Doers.
2007-11-21 01:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life, you can't win at everything but you can try...& trying needs courage. As long as you have the courage to try, to go on, to move on, to get up, to face life no matter what, life will be easy.
2007-11-21 02:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Crissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree with you .I have faced many personal problems with courage.
2007-11-21 02:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by lalachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me the person who disagrees above me and below me. I will remove them from my contact list …. Hahahah
How about you, you face it with courage? be honest... :)
I always face it with courage and confidence and win it. I am always the winner as I might make others look that they are winning ... hahahah
2007-11-21 02:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course dealing with a problem is way better than whining about it. if you notice most of the askers on this section are whiners with problems they just dont wanna try to solve but start asking random people for help.
2007-11-21 01:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Sean Lawlor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was just like...don't complain about the thorns in the roses but be glad that thorn have roses........
facing life and doing something for it is a great favor for yourself..
be thankful enough that you still waking up each morning, no matter what happens ahead, its still whinning not for the living........
2007-11-21 02:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by mge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A question that appears to be asked by someone who has not lived long enough to have developed a healthy cynicism.
"Courage" will take you only so far.
2007-11-21 01:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by B C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋