My best friend is friends with somebody who I DO NOT like at all cause that person who my best friend is friends with is not a very nice person and he has a really bad anger problem and he's been in trouble with the law for assaulting somebody and domestic violence on his ex-wife and he's gotten into many fights.
What should I do to tell my best friend how I feel about the person who he is friends with, I do not want to be friends with him and associate with him, my brother does not like him at all either but my best friend thinks very highly of him.
2007-11-20 16:54:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that you should tell him exactly how you feel!!! Eventually it's his choice weather he chooses to still be friends with that other person that you do not like. It's up to you if you would except the fact that he would choice to be friends with that person after you tell him how you feel!!!
Good luck!!!
2007-11-20 16:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by WiseGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked your friend why he thinks so highly of him?
then when he tells you why, ask him how can he have such high regards to a man that hits a women?
Inform your friend this guy has a very bad temper and when you cross him and don't even realize it, he will find out the hard way,and you'd rather he be warned now before anything happens. Because you are friends......
Then it's his choice, there's nothing you can do about it.
2007-11-20 17:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so up my alley. My best friend has his best friend who is a total witch. She was on Jerry Springer as a dominatrix. My friend defends her at every moment, but she is out of control. She visited, burnt holes in my blanket and my sofa pillow. I can't stand her because of this and that she speaks loudly and continuously. They fight all the time in person, but talks on the phone every day. They are nuts and I am tired of it.
I have the advice that I give myself. Be angry and try to deal with it. If you find a solution, please let me know.
2007-11-20 17:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by Boomer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is gonna sound cheeseballish but the best thing to do is talk it out u dont want to end a friendship over something like this and yeah maybe this guy sounds like bad news but people change if ur really friends just look out for him/her there's obviously a reason ur friend like this person
2007-11-20 17:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by zecacool87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont see a need to tell your friend you dont like their other friend. Each person has the right to be friends with who they want. Telling your friend your feelings may upset up and cause friction between the two of you. Your friend may think you are jealous of the other one. If you MUST tell your friend how you feel, state what you did here, why you dont like them but that you aren't trying to tell them who to be friends with. Why dont you ask them "Why do you like this person?" but dont be a jerk about it.
2007-11-20 16:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon at this style of competion. i've got self assurance 2 people may be super pals yet yet very aggressive in a sturdy way. I surely have a buddy and we can compete with grades, even ocassionally making a wager. it relatively is often friendly. yet whilst the competiveness turns into approximately greater important stuff then your buddy may be jealous of you. they may be competing with you simply by fact they choose to be such as you
2016-09-29 22:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend the truth, but be prepared for the consequences. You may find out your friend isn't the person you thought. Honesty is always the best policy.
2007-11-20 16:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Hitman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important to be honest with your friend about how you feel, but I caution you in your approach. These things tend to push the ones that we love right to the person that we don't want them to be around. Try to spend time with your friend when the other guy isn't around.
2007-11-20 17:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best friend might not be the best friend of you. Decline to do anything, or, go anywhere with the bad guy. When your friend asks why, level with him. Don't say anything until he asks, you will sound like you are jealous or are trying to control who he is friends with.
2007-11-20 17:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by T C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are older and i am only 16 but just tell your friends this: Listen your my best friend but i really dislike that one kid you hang out with i want to be your friend but i hope you understand when i say i don't want to be HIS friend
2007-11-20 16:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋