I live with my husband and 2 year old. The agreement was, they would get a storage unit for all their belongings. Then they said they couldn't afford one and took over our garage! They were supposed to buy their own toilet paper and laundry detergent type items. When my toilet paper ran out they used my daughters baby wipes(these are expensive for those that dont have kids) They go out at least 3 times a week. They had a $300 bar tab in just 2 WEEKS! They invite crappy people over at all hours of the night. We dont smoke so we asked that they be curtious. They smoke on my enclosed porch and throw cigarette butts all over my yard! I buy more expensive food because I'm picky, they buy store brand and eat all mine, AND THEIRS! When I was taking care of my sister who had surgery her husband asked my sister for her pain meds. 3 TIMES! They started talking crap to my sis because I asked for rent when he got paid 11 days before rent as opposed to letting them pay me 4 days after rent is due!
2007-11-20 16:54:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To Answer Katie, We are renting this 3 bedroom house. We arent supposed to have roomates but they really needed help. We agreed they had to leave no later than Jan. 31st, But there is nothing in writing. This is mine, my husbands, and our daughters 1st Christmas season on "our own" and I'm not sure I want them here for the Holidays considering the events that have taken place over the last month and a half. But if I kick them out they have NO where they can go. So Kick them out and be Scrooge? Or Suck it up for 2 more months?
2007-11-20 17:35:01 · update #1
Did you guys sign a lease?
I hope not. now, because you can kick them out and they can not pay rent, but i hope it doesn't come down to a Judge Judy issue. She loves renter problems.
What was your original agreement? HOW LONG did they tell you they would be there?
You can research eviction laws in your county on the internet through the court system or law library and research it yourself.
You and your husband are going to have to tell them they have to go.
They are taking serious advantage of you and this is so wrong.
I would also tell them that the living arrangements, rent, food, toiletries etc. are between you and them, not your sister.
Tell them you feel the rent you agreed on is not enough to cover all the expenses that have incurred because they broke the agreement on the toiletries, diaper wipes, name brand expensive foods, etc.
And you want to see every single cig. but picked up out of your yard AND no smoking on the premises anywhere because of the inconsideration of not using an ashtray and just throwing them out in the yard.
Sorry but they sound like low life trailer trash people looking for a free ride.
You are going to have to tell them nicely at first that it is not working out and they till next weekend to get out.
If they buck and say that isn't enough time, tell them it's way over do.
Hand it to them in writing if you have to and include everything they have taken advantage of.
And remind them if they can afford a $300.00 bar bill, they could have afforded storage and can certainly afford to pay rent out on their own and live the way they want to live without disrupting your home any longer.
Check you laws first and good luck I hope they leave peacefully. Better put anything of value under lock and key or get it out of the house, think like them for about an hour before you put your plan into motion and be ready for anything they have a comeback on.
2007-11-20 17:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 16:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those aren't called friends. They're called jerks and they are calling you patsy.
Ask yourself why you have adopted their probelm as your own and are tolerating disregard and disrespect in your house. Surely you had some idea of the type people they are beofre they moved into your house.
Correct your mistake by telling them to vacate immediately. If not, they'll be opening your Christmas presents, keeping some, and passing out others to their "crappy" friends . Oh, and they are not paying rent in December...bigger bar tab to run up.
Cut your losses (even if that means decluttering your "friends" list) and let them live with some of the crappy people they bring to your house.
2007-11-20 17:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Khafi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Katie, too! I will add that you can try talking alone with your friend and explaining that this is not working for you. See what her reaction is. If she does not understand or gets angry, you will have to involve the law to make them leave.
2007-11-20 17:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-13 02:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO BRAINER. Evict them immediately. This story make them the smart ones...at the moment.
2007-11-20 17:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mike R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
KICK THEM OUT!! If your too nice to kick them out, then just still them to stop smoking, no inviting people, no stealing stuff!!!! You could atleast tell who ever it is!!!, if this continues to happen K-I-C-K T-H-E-M O-U-T!!!!!
2007-11-20 17:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by Maboroshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Katie is right
2007-11-20 17:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by rainy32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋