we have been together for 10 years and we seperated for a year we got back together this last Dec. and he had never slept with anyone before me now, he has slept with 3 other people and our sex life sucks! why is that? Am I not good enough or is he just too comfortable with me and donesnt feel like he has to prove himself?
2007-11-20 16:53:10 · 7 answers · asked by Stephanie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it sucks, do something about it. Be the aggressor, do whatever you would find exciting. Surprise him by doing some things that are completely out of character. Get crazy! Women are strong and powerful and you don't have to take this lying down...no pun intended!
2007-11-20 17:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by SkyLights90N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stephenie, believe it or not, what your say here is not true. It easier to be on offensive side than admitting doing something knowingly that it hurts another but the truth without no reasonable doubt, he is seeing someone else perhaps the one you just said here. So by the time he feel like having sex with you, he is already worn out, or got from someone else.
2007-11-20 19:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have a whole lot involved when it comes to desire for a man. We are emotionally connected with sex, whereas men just do it.
Maybe you are putting off bad vibes since he has been out messin around with other women. He feels it.
2007-11-20 17:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by happydawg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, try something new in the bedroom...new positions, role play, get dressed up whatever your taste. Spice things up a little. I mean I am a french maid every now and then
2007-11-20 16:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by nebthet1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should ask your husband. Talk talk talk talk talk, to him. You seem to have grown apart and the only thing that will clear it all up is communicating to him. Open up to him and he will open up to you.
2007-11-20 17:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i first joined yahoo answers i gave long, well thought out answers... now they are short and sweet. he's doing the same.
2007-11-20 16:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Charles M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
learn new tricks .. they always always help...
2007-11-20 18:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋