ive been shy all my life the only way i can see to overcome it is that every time i get anxious or obsessive over doing something that scares me {even if its something really little} i force myself to do it, then i am okay & really proud of myself. step by step ive gotton so much better, but its wierd bc if i do things the same way for a long time {like sitting in the same spot in class or the cafeteria} i almost have a fear to sit somewhere else so i just force myself to get everything done & out of the way so i have nuthin left to be afriad of cuz ive done it all before. it works.. slowly lol. this is probaly something with a name to it lol but i call it shyness & i have been doing well.
2007-11-20 15:26:02
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answered by sO*happy 5
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I don't. I intend to cower in the dark for as long as I like and then crawl out like a wounded dog when I feel more brave. We all can't be lions.
2007-11-20 23:26:32
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answered by l m 3
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I don't intend to surpass any of my fears.
Fear is a good thing.
It's what keeps us from jumping off high places and coming to the surface when we're out of breath underwater.
Fear is good.
It's what keeps the species going!
2007-11-20 23:25:52
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answered by Dave W 1
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well theres technique called Flooding.......
I wouldnt reccomend that.....
Theres also a different method, I forget the name
but you concentrate on the "good" your fear brings to this world. For example, Im scared to frigging death of needles and blood, but just concentrating on the fact that millions of lives are saved because of blood donation, keeps me calm...for a short period of time...
idk Im still very scared of needles and blood!
2007-11-20 23:28:29
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answered by Human 3
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Truthfully, by wishful thinking. I hoped it would never come upon me. But it did - it was horrible; absolutely horrible. I made it through it though and am stronger for it.
2007-11-20 23:27:06
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answered by Anne Teak 6
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The only way anyone can truely do it and that is by FACING THAT FEAR HEAD ON!
2007-11-20 23:24:27
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answered by Anonymous
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i wish i knew, lots of fears here but not fear of saying it or deny it
2007-11-20 23:27:57
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answered by nomorecapri 5
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confront your fear,try to understand why you react to it the way you do,but do not avoid it.
2007-11-20 23:28:36
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answered by ecclectic1962 2
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I'm afraid of the dark, so I like to scare people in dark rooms to make me feel better.. it doesn't help me, i'm still scared. but it's okay... :(
2007-11-20 23:24:38
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answered by Scrooby 2
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ask support from my family
2007-11-20 23:24:14
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answered by Nora 7
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