I cannot stand his family?

Question

Everytime my husband goes around his family he lies. He hangs out at clubs w/ his sister. He lies when he goes over to his father's house. The more he lies the more I cannot stand it!!! I have tried to talk to him about it but he dosen't care. He just says I will get mad. When I tell him if he would lie to me he just says "whatever". What should I do?

Answer 1

Sounds like he dont have much of a life... or the truth would be something more interesting to hear!!
You know if he is lying at his own parents house and others as well then he is lying to you also! I think I would find out... see what he is up to..... theres always ways to figure him out!! USE your head, keep up with what he tells you... see what adds up and what dont! CALL HIM ON IT when you put 2 and 2 together!!

Answer 2

You can't really blame his family for his lies. He has a mind of his own. You need to sit him down and talk to him, not argue, but talk and tell him how you feel. If that doesn't work, then maybe you two might need to see a family therapist. But if you don't do something now, it could keep growing until you and him start resenting the other. You need to get professional help now.

Answer 3

Well you can't blame the guy family, for your husband behavior, you need to look at your husband. Just remember you marry a liar that always going to lie his way out of things.

Answer 4

His family isn't making him lie, he is choosing to do so on his own. Get to know them, go to the club with them, go see his dad on your own. Maybe if you try to make a relationship with them he won't feel the need to lie about seeing them.

Answer 5

tell his family the way he's treating u. like his parents