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2007-11-20 14:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by super freak 1 in Social Science Gender Studies

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By being intellectually beat into submission-- subtly, kindly, respectfully and slowly-- with a coolness that suggests a quiet confidence, exciting to be around. The silence makes you want to talk, the self-containment makes you want to do things for him and be needed, hungry for the slightest sign of recognition and favor.

Now, if you manage to do that, you'll be able to seduce a lot of women, without needing money, looks or touch :)

Casapull: I hate to mess up your flow, but from your answer I highly doubt you could even have my attention. You killed the intellectual, subtly, respectfully, slowly, cool, silent, exciting, self contained, creating hunger, and quiet confidence parts with your first line, and quickly added comedy with your "sex" talk. How did you manage to kill 'em all with one sentence, without even trying? LOL

2007-11-20 15:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lioness 6 · 10 1

I enjoy his undivided attention. When no matter where we are, I am the only person he chooses to share company with. In return, I always make him feel the very same way. Even when you are in a company of many other people, make sure she knows you are interested in her. I love a man who knows what I enjoy, and plans our dates accordingly. I like to be surprised with a thoughtful gift. Dancing is very seductive to me. Make sure you can dance, because women connect that ability with your sexual skills somehow... Listen to what she has to say... Really listen to her, and she will tell you exactly what she wants. Light touches, if invited are very seductive. Gentle kisses and hugs are nice as well. Music, candle light and silk sheets... Flowers... Do ask what her favorites are, before assuming the wrong thing... Delicious food, nice wine and a brilliant conversation... Do learn to listen: that is the very best advice I can give you.

2007-11-20 16:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by ms.sophisticate 7 · 2 0

All of the following romances or turns me on.

Starting with the mind:
- Maintaining his/her end of a conversation, it doesn't always have to be intellectual, I enjoy discussing diverse topics. Mental stimulation may sometimes lead to other kinds of stimulation.
- Open-mindedness: not necessarily that he/she agrees with my views, but would at least listen and show some interest.
- Sense of humour: I enjoy laughing at the sarcastic, silly, witty or dark, laughter makes me feel good in several ways.
- Demonstrating confidence: unafraid to express their strengths and weaknesses. Not allow me to disrespect or walk all over him/her yet have respect for me, and treat me as an equal, this makes me desire the person more so.

On to the physical:
- Affection: I see it as either kind expressions, romantic exchanges or leading to seduction, depends on where and how one is doing it, and to me, it's all good, I am a physical person.
I like to surprise and be surprised sometimes, kiss and be kissed unexpectedly, be grabbed or tapped seductively in certain places, taken by the person and let him/her have their way with me, for them to allow me to have my way with them as well, sometimes playful, others passionate, among many other forms of romance or seduction.

Edit: Haha! Lioness and Casapull are hilarious.

2007-11-20 17:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

i wish i knew the answer to this question...

some girls seem to be turned on by alpha male status. there are methods to seducing those kinds of girls.

other girls seem to only be turned on by "hot" guys with cute boyish faces...

2007-11-20 16:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1 0

Thank you Lioness and Katiana for the validation. Nice to know I'm on the right track.

2007-11-20 19:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jesus Chrysler 6 · 3 0

I can do that to the Lioness, to the put on making her purr about renaming herself Loiness... or Loinclothless, or Lyingbackandjustlettinggo... what fun, would that dinner be.. and that cab ride back... (deep sigh)

PS - Let me answer your question, Kid... make them laugh, but not too edgy, always remember you are not with a man. Don't teach, don't preach and don't overtalk. Edit and stop yourself. Be as romantic as anything you've seen on TV -- if you MEAN it. If you don't, it will be obvious. Don't try to fool them. Just listen, ask questions. Caress and hold. Be honest. And want to be with them, meaning wherever you ARE... a certain touch atop a knee, and firmer touch as you guide her before you, as you walk through a doorway, etc. says all she needs to know, subtly. Never believe you are above her... you are side by side.

2007-11-20 15:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3 4

Lioness: They call me... Bond.

James Bond. ;)

2007-11-20 22:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Kid listen to Casapulla.....I am impressed by him. He knows what he is talking about!!!!

2007-11-20 16:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0 5

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