I had someone to call me and tell me they are going to rape me .Why do men rape.Why do they threaten rape.Once this year he almost got me i fought him with all my might he tried to shove his fingers in me but i got loose and ran like hell why does he sneak up on me. I am married but scared to tell my husband it is his freind he likes so much because he befreinded my husband to get close to me .But he is my ex from years back that has resurfaced he scares me and is trying to do whatever to make me miserable but my husband knows who he is but does not pay attention at all he allows him to come over and take pics of me he is married now with 3 kids what does he want with me .I need serious answers please!!
2007-11-20 14:17:03 · 32 answers · asked by Sharon G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Um, you need to tell your husband what is going on. If he doesn't believe you and trusts his friend, he is not someone you want to be married to. If this guy is threatening to rape you, I would not be taking this so lightly. This guy has actually gotten so far as to actually, physically touch you and you just let him come over all the time? I know your scared but come on, be strong and tell your husband, call the cops, stand your ground and scream it out!!!!! YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO PROTECT YOURSELF FROM THIS GUY! Your husband better believe you, if he doesn't, I would leave him so fast his head would spin.
2007-11-20 14:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by sun day 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband. Tell him it has got to stop .. and that you are going to the Police.
Tell the police. Put it on record.
STOP .. having anything to do with this guy. Get a restraining order against him.
Do not let him take any pictures ... gosh .. what is your husband thinking?
Do all things to put a STOP to it. If your husband does not help you .. then you need to find out why.
2007-11-20 14:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some pepper spray, and USE it next time he tries anything.
You really need to tell your husband about this, and probably the POLICE as well. I'm sure threats like that are illegal, and your husband would surely stop being friends with him if you tell the truth.
2007-11-20 14:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your husband. This man is really going to hurt you and your husband won't have a clue what's going on. I'd even try to get a restraining order or at lease go talk to the police. He sound dangerous and if he scares you someone needs to know what's going on. Please be careful.
2007-11-20 14:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband knows something. Maybe they are working together to test you and pressure you to see if you are a liar or not. Call the police and possibly get ready to make some hard decisions. If your husband doesn't believe you and he chooses to ignore your circumstance leave him and that crazy dude alone.
2007-11-20 14:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by Deneice C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband lets this guy take pics of you???
If he's attempting to rape you, call the cops!!! If your husband is not going to protect you, you need to get out. Get to a shelter, and take the kids with you.
2007-11-20 14:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband. This isn't something to hide from him, especially if he knows this person (even if it is your ex). Your husband SHOULD take your side and if he doesn't, you have some thinking to do. Your husband will be able to protect you and help you work out a way to get this guy outo f your life.
2007-11-20 14:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your husband. this guy, does not think you will, that is why he is doing this. so what if your husband is friends with him. your husband should know what type of person he really is. as long as you do nothing. he will continue to go after you. explain to your husband about what is going on, if that does not work. go to the police department and tell them what is going on. it also sounds as if this guy is stalking you. if you do not do anything. he will finally catch you. so take action now, do not wait.
2007-11-20 14:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL SOMEONE ANYONE YOU TRUST
then avoid him at all possible cost if it continues report him to the police or I'm not sure how that all works but you need to get the fact that he is threating you and physically hurting you out to someone you can't just ignore it. Sit down with your husband and make him listen,.
as for why guys do all that crazy stuff I don't know its all psycological like perhapes stuff happened to them when they were younger
2007-11-20 14:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the man you are talking about probably has a psychological problem rooting from unresolved conflict when he was a child. you should be careful because he can be so dangerous. the best option is to tell your husband so he can protect you from whatever harm that guy can do to you. you can also blotter the incident to the police station for proper documentation
2007-11-20 14:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋