2007-11-20 14:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by achilles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was with a man who really was too big and let me tell you, it is not fun. You have to do some adjustments, she needs to be on top to determine the depth, use lubrications (KY) if too wide and take it slowly. The man I was with was literally to big length wise - width was not the issue. It does hurt if he goes too deep and when gaining momentum for climax, it really got painful! I did not have any female issues, I went thought that was the problem, doc said everything was fine and we discussed the problem. He said it can happen that some men are just too big for some women. Just try different positions and modify.
2007-11-21 02:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by divergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have to undergo surgery in order to make your penis smaller. I don't think you would want to do that. You can try to have sex without fully penetrating her. In the meantime, she can see her doctor to make sure the pain is not stemming from something else (like a cyst or something else).
2007-11-20 14:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by jognmiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when I first got married she used to sit on the side of the bed and say it was to big! Now after 20 years I set on the side of the bed and cry and say its to big! It will balance out!
2007-11-21 02:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lying, how about tell her to relax. Because sex hurts for women if you don't relax. Then help her get comfortable with her sexuality and then there will be no limit what you all could do.
2007-11-20 14:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by Deneice C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
squeeze the top of your 'head'... this will help for a little while, then you will get plump again... the other thing is to squeeze your 'head' then use one of those 'shaft' rings (a tight one) to keep blood from plumping you again...
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otherwise, she will have to deal with it if she loves you enough, or you will have to have a lover that wants your big one...
best to you...
2007-11-20 14:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Julie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
request her to use 'woman on top' posture and you keep you still while she accommodates you as much deep as she finds comfortable.
2007-11-20 14:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dream on, shorty.
2007-11-20 15:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sory dude, she just doesn`t like sex with you
2007-11-20 15:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up, you are dreaming.
2007-11-20 18:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Tell me what you show off and I will tell you what you lack of"
2007-11-20 14:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by Rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋