Is it that bad?
2007-11-20 13:42:04 · 19 answers · asked by just_ebz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do not have sex until you are 100% ready and never let your boyfriend pressure you into it. He should respect your decision. If you do decide to have sex though, please take proper precautions and have him wear a condom.
2007-11-20 13:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by Nicholas 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, I would totally not do anything unless you're ready for it. It's your body so don't let your boyfriend pressure you.
Second, if you feel you are ready and he's the guy you want to have sex with then just go with it and ask him to take it slow. Unfortunately, the first time isn't ever as good or memorable as you expect. It all feels very strange until you kinda get into it. It's a physical sensation that is not familiar.
That being said sex with the right person can be wonderful and fulfilling experience. Follow your intuition and do what's right for you, not him.
2007-11-20 13:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you let it happen.Being a virgin is not a bad thing. Being used and sleeping around is an awful thing. When you get older you will see. Keep you virginty for your wedding night. Or maybe you just want to play rushing roulette with when you will get AIDS and how long you will have to live. How many you will pass it on to.And how many they will pass it to. ONLY TRYING TO SCARE YOU A LITTLE BIT UNTIL YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND YOU AND YOUR BODY.
2007-11-20 13:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by yellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something bad could happen you could get pregnant or catch something. Don't know how old you are but if you are scared or uncomfortable stick to you guns. Maybe that is the only thing he is after and maybe not but if he loves you he will wait till you are ready! Good Luck!
2007-11-20 14:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sylvia C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of things could happen, but the most important thing is to wait until you are ready. Don't let your boyfriend push you into something that you don't want to do.
2007-11-20 14:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know how old you are or how long you have been bf and gf. Don't get pressured into having sex at a young age. You won't regret waiting until you are sure that you have a lifetime partner!
2007-11-20 13:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by AFRET73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really concerned by the way you worded this question.
"My boyfriend wants to have sex with me." instead of "I want to have sex with my boyfriend" or "my boyfriend and I want to have sex." You're also obviously scared and unsure whether or not you want to have it.
Don't. Unless you're 100% sure YOU want this, and YOU are ready.
If you're not, then it won't be fun, you won't enjoy it, and you will not be happy that you did it.
2007-11-20 13:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect to happen... If your not ready dont.. he should respect that and if he doesn't then leave him.! use a condom if you do and if you keep doin it go on birth control! you dont have to tell your parents were i live in fl.. so maybe you dont have to there eather! if you are safe about it.. theres a chance that nothing will happen.. but the only way to make absoutly positivly nothing will happen is NOT DOING IT!
2007-11-20 13:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by proudmommy101207 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by something?
If you mean an unwanted pregnancy, an STD, his leaving you afterwards, a broken heart, or your having a feeling of guilt, then yes something can happen.
2007-11-20 13:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by derek1079 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should not let your boyfriend pressure you into having sex you should have sex when your 100% sure that it is right
i hope everything works out
2007-11-20 13:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by sweet angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋