Id like to know if thats true. My bf and I go through it at times now but nothing real serious just arguements that comes along with time. But it wasnt always like this I know how he can get it took alot for us to get to where we are and it wasn't all good. I got the bad end of the relationship as far as feelings being hurt and things like that but now things are different, but Im wondering if I were to get pregnant or when we decided to get pregnant would that side that we packed away from our relationship return, Keep It real Girls I need to know!!!
2007-11-20 13:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by bv_daisy_bv 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
My husband was ecstatic and we were delighted to welcome our very planned and wanted Son
2007-11-20 13:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband was absolutely wonderful during my pregnancy, and is even more so now. However, we have a strong relationship and rarely argue, but talk things out. For three years prior to my pregnancy we went through some rough times when we barely talked and were almost nothing more than roommates. I was more determined than with past relationshps to make it work because we're married and he wasn't just a boyfriend. Two completely different levels of commitment. The way I see it, there's more of an out when there's more of an open end.
I can't tell you how your boyfriend will be. Also, it would be better for you and any children if you are in a strong, stable marriage-- Two people who are fully committed to each other and then to their child(ren) for a happier family. I speak from exeperience as this was the atmosphere in which I was raised. My husband's parents are still married but even he would say that their marriage isn't as loving as my parents. Still, though, it was a model.
2007-11-20 13:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by Vegan_Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about that. My husband was really supportive. Of course, getting pregnant was a mutual decision. Bringing a baby into an unstable home is a terrible idea. It is unfair to him to have a baby if he's not ready / interested / otherwise able. And it's not fair the the baby to have an absentee daddy. And it's not fair to you. So before you decide to get pregnant, be sure that he's in agreement and and that the decision is mutual.
2007-11-20 13:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on the guy. I definitely think if you are having problems before, a baby isn't going to help. My bf and I have our ups and downs as a couple. But since becoming pregnant, I think he's been a complete jerk. And it's not on purpose. He's just completely ignorant of my emotions during this time so I'm pissed off all the time at him.
2007-11-20 13:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its true that it happens, but it doesn't happen to every relationship. My husband would never "put me through hell", especially while pregnant. My husband was a saint while we were pregnant. I think the problem is that our hormone levels are so out of whack that anything can become a fight. If he looks at you wrong, a fight will erupt. Its not him and its not you. Its the hormones!
2007-11-20 13:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every relationship is different but my husband loves that i am pregnant he puts up with all my craziness and trust me i go from laughing to crying to being angry and back again i am one crazy preggo but he just deals with it tells me he loves me and deals with any problems i might be having that make me feel those ways he doesnt let me go shopping by myself anymore because i am to emotional and i get pushed around in the store by my house by a bunch of bit**y old people who think they are better than everyone else and that makes me very angry so he just goes with me and doesnt take crap from anyone and we do have some bad history but when he needs to talk about it we do thank god he hasnt had any in a while i dont know how i would handle that
2007-11-20 13:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by mother to Eva Nicole 4/25/08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl, but i do know that a womans hormones are rapidly changing when you are pregnant. But for the guys who are reading this, support your woman, wife, GF or whatever, they will be having a rough time for the first few months.
2007-11-20 13:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by George C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 15 weeks along. Most of the time my husband drives me crazy. I don't want him near me, I don't want him to touch me, and I don't want him to talk to me. If I am by myself and he walks in, I get really nauseous. It never used to be like this, I was always quite clingy. I'm sure ut's hard on him, but lucky for me he seems to be understanding and sympathetic of what I am going through.
2007-11-20 13:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mikey's Mommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
part of it is our hormones.... and part of it is their stupidity.
lol
my hubby and i got into some of the most alful fights over the most STUPID things when i was pregant... one of the most memorable was i asked him to go get me some skittles at the store one night... and he brought back m & m s and couldnt understand why i wouldnt eat them
lol
2007-11-20 13:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my bf fight constantly now all the sudden he wants to be cuddlie and all over me and show me how much he loves me and he drives me crazy i want space lol
2007-11-20 14:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by katie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋