My friends hate who i become....?

Question

I feel menatlly and physically exausted. I used to be really hyper and fun, and now i need to forse my self to be like that to please other people. I still laugh alot, but idk. I dont know why im acting like this, and i cant change either. Its like when i get home from school i could just lay on the floor staring at the ceiling for hours, thats why i dont feel like calling them anymore. I know i need to call them, and i should, but i feel drained and i dont have the energy to call them! WHy am i like this?? Is it depression??

Answer 1

Hi! I am so sorry that you are feeling this way! It is really hard for me because I always want to please people too! There is nothing wrong with you though! I think that you might have depression because my friend and family members had the same symptoms too. Some depression symptoms (keep in mind that it is different for everyone because everybody is different) is feeling fatigued, tired, feeling isolated (being in isolation), and feeling like to be alone . The reason why I say that there is nothing wrong is because many people suffer from depression. Teens suffer from depression too, but this does not make them a bad person in any way shape or form. I think that maybe you should see a counselor and a psychologist , just so they can help you feel like yourself again and so you can get better real soon. Here are some websites that might help you

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/depression.html

http://www.medicinenet.com/teen_depression/index.htm

http://www.nmha.org/

http://www.nami.org/

I hope this helps , sweetie. Many people might have better responses because I am not a proffessional, but I have seen people go through the exact same symptoms. I hope this helps!

Answer 2

Fatigue can be part of depression. Sometimes being that tired can cause other things to happen such as becoming sick and developing an illness or disease. Do you feel better when you are alone? Maybe you need to find time to be alone and take stock of your life. You may have changed and don't want to be the way you used to be. Sometimes this happens. Don't be afraid to listen to yourself and change course. I agree with the others here. You should seek a doctor and so they can run some tests to rule out any kind of illness. You should think about visiting a counselor.

Answer 3

I seriously think that ur going through some kind of depression, have u tried counceling? it helps more than u think, and just tell ur friends that u need time alone by urself and during that time, u might want to try to find a phychietrist that's really good, and then go from there, u dont want to get it get to u really bad, u wont be able to handle it, trust me ud be cutting urself with knives, take it from personal experience, if i knew u, then i would show u all the marks on my body and arms and legs.... dont do it

Answer 4

It's no fun when you feel like this, I know but even though you feel like you don't want to talk to anyone you just need to make yourself, it could be you just need to talk to someone about you, like a close friend or family member, it's always a comfort to know someone close to you understands what's going on, sometimes they know just how to make you feel better because they know you. I don't know if this is much help but I hope so, becoming distant from the ones who care about you isn't really fair to them since they have no idea what is up with you, so talk to them and maybe they can help.

Answer 5

I'm not a doctor, and it *might* be epression, but I DO know that no one should feel miserable like that. I used to feel like that, and I sort of isolated myself from my friends because I just didn't want to BE AROUND ANYONE. But trust me, just call your friends. Maybe some time having fun might make you feel better. I also suggest going to see a counselor of some sort, or even just confiding in a friend about how you feel. It makes you feel better, and it helps you know that there are always people out there who care about you and who care how you feel. If you feel alone, or like no one understands you, just remember, you're not the only one. Talk to a counselor- I swear it will help!

Ayways, people care about you. But do you care about yourself enough to seek help?

Answer 6

it could be depression
can you think of a reason why your like this?
is something bringing you down or what?
the best thing to do is consult a conselor or something
asking random people on yahoo answers is not the way to go
good luck hope you feel better soon
=) <3

Answer 7

Next time you lay on the floor looking up at the ceiling, make sure you're listening to the song, "The End" by the Doors. Then go to Blockbuster and rent, "Apocalypse Now"....you're not the only one with problems.

Answer 8

Just do some calming things, to remove your depressions. Stuff like listening to happy or cheerful kinda of music. Maybe a sport, or hobby/activity, like playing an instrument.

!!!!!!~~~NO PILLS THOUGH !! THEY ARE BAD ND CAN MAKE YOU HAVE SUICIDAL TENDENCIES~~~!!!!!!

Answer 9

ok, get you and your desirable buddy to communicate in a private place. tell her that her buddy has been bothering you. check together with her as in case you're asking her suggestion. clarify each and every thing that is going on and ask her what you're able to do to evade any conflicts or fights.

Answer 10

It is depression. There are good prescription medications that can help. But you need to see a doctor.