Is this weird?

Question

I'm a sophomore in high school, and I've never had a boyfriend. No guy has ever asked me out, and as far as I know, I've only had 1 or 2 people even like me.
I know I'm not ugly, as I frequently get told that I'm a pretty attractive person (I'm 5"7, skinny, decent features, freakishly long legs, decent proportions, I've been asked to model before) but people think I'm weird that I've never had a boyfriend... Is this a common mindset? Am I just weird?

Answer 1

You may act or seem weird to others. It happens.

Don't even try changing. Be yourself, and be happy with it. Why on earth would you give up your greatest gift (being you), to pretend to be something different.

Answer 2

What is there that people find weird about you?That would be one clue. are you putting out vibes that may keep people away. this is not uncommon for girls in10th grade to not have boyfriends.. You may just be a late bloomer Do you show those legs now and then? I was always speechless when a long legged girl walked by. Do you use make up? when was the last time you changed your hair , length, color ? Guys at your age are easy to bewilder , Do you have any guy friends? You may need a makeover. post a picture somewhere and get some opinions, that's what this place is for. There are some pretty good judges around here. What have you lose except some self esteem. I promise you will get some helpful information. I said Some

Answer 3

Naw not weird. That's not the end of the world. Heck a ton of people don't date till after HS and even college. Just give it time, from your description you'll not have any problems and if anyone tells you different they are probably weird.

You be you and enjoy life. A certain amount of people don't really care about that till later. Some go right into college to obtain an education. I'm sure it fun to party all the time, you need to learn and then the world is yours. cannot tell you how many I know that messed up by dating and making that the center of their world.

So it will come in time and I wouldn't worry about it. I've been around for a pretty good while and you may end up with modeling job and then we can see you plastered all over the place and in magazines. So study and be glad you are not being distracted. You'll know when the time comes and protect yourself. Take care.

Answer 4

I think it's because you have a beautiful height for a 16 yr old, that might be intimidating for most guys at this age. You sound just lovely, give it time, all the guys will be after you in another year or two (when they grow up).
I heard somewhere that boys are 2 years behind the girls (till they get older), so you are really dealing with 14 yr olds.
And also maybe because you don't appear "easy".
Stay as you are - you will be fine with the guys

Answer 5

I didn't have a boyfriend til I was 19...cause I was immature and baby-like,I couldn't let boys touch me or talk to me without getting red in the face or start about crazy weird stuff....wait I still do that I just don't care what others think of it and I found boys that don't care that I have creepy mannerisms.

Be yourself no matter how you are and be okay with it,and if your okay with it than other people will be too,the most attractive thing is being yourself......and with showing who you really are will attract people that you could click with on a honest level.

Answer 6

No. I didnt have a serious boyfriend until I was 19. My first was when I was a freshman but that was just a juvenile "He's my boyfriend, she's my girlfriend" thing that lasted for a couple weeks. Had another when I was 18 which only lasted for a couple weeks and then went on to the serious one which lasted for a year and a half. I'm now on #4, engaged to him, been together for over three years.

Answer 7

Of course you're not weird, you sound great and perhaps the boys are too scared to ask you out because they think you're too good for them and you'll turn them down. You also have to bear in mind that boys are generally less mature than girls of the same age too and who knows what goes through their minds half the time. Just be patient and someone will come along soon and then you'll probably find there will be lots of boys just dying to ask you on a date you'll be spoilt for choice!!

Answer 8

U seem like a really pretty girl, and most people who say that ur weird are wierd for saying that ur wierd, sorry thats confusing but u get what I am saying, right? Well, the reason u probably haven't had a bf is probably becuase u haven't talk to any guys, now if u actually start talking to dudes, then maybe guys will like u and know u more, trust me, it works., try it......

Answer 9

honey your not weird. im a junior in highschool.. ive never had a boyfriend or had my first kiss. my friends are always complimenting me on how pretty i am.. i feel like if im so pretty then why dont i have a boyfriend...? so it just makes me feel uglier.. but the real thing is ... guys are probably just intimidated by your beauty that they think your better than them and they cant have you... also they could just be really really shy to ask you out since your really pretty. dont feel like your weird.. as long as you know your pretty.. the perfect confident guy will come and ask you out. seriously i do know how you feel and i hate it... i feel like im getting too old and im never going to date... but were still young so just give it time.. ill just take my own advice too =)

Answer 10

THis reminds me of a friend of mine, she has never had a BF, she is very pretty too. She has never had a BF for two reasons
a) Everyone always thought she had a date, so no one asked her. She was is so pretty people think, "oh, she is probably to good for me,", when she is actually really nice!
b) She always thought guys were the one to ask u out, not girls to ask. So she never took a stand if she liked someone, she just waited... So be assertive!

Answer 11

As little as men understand women the truth is you don;t understand men either. The problem might be you are too cute. If you are too attractive males will be worried about getting told you aren't interested if they ask, ego's are fragile things though boys hide that fact well. Trying talking to some one you are interested in and see what happens, don't have to ask him out but let him know you wouldn't shoot him down if he asked. .