My husband has been emotionally ousted from his family but because it benifits my in-laws they are leaving him in their will. My husband wants to be removed because he feels it is best to disolve all ties with them. Do they have to agree to this????
2007-11-20 12:39:47 · 19 answers · asked by henswife 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Only the person who makes the will can change it.
2007-11-20 12:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by TedEx 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He should simply remove himself from their lives and do not accept anything that may be left to him in their will, when the time comes. Don't let a will, that they can change at any time, bear so heavily on his emotions. Life is short. Go, live, love, laugh.
2007-11-20 12:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by beecher 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
silly, silly pride and selfishness. he hurts you when he denounces them and insists on being cut out. he would not have to ask but once with me, by god.
just purely stupid. take care of yourself and just so along with his selfish attitude. don't argue with him, he is beyond reasoning. let him act like a silly child willing to cut off his nose to spite his face. dumb. i would try and be a bridge to the family somehow. you surely can privately keep some key member informed and, thereby, prove your superior intelligence.
that is annoying to even hear. stubborn stupid behavoir like that is familiar and frustrating to even a stranger.
just keep saying, "yes dear, yes dear" and establish a little bridge with the right one. they must really care or they would instantly cut him off. he is a fool.
2007-11-20 12:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't remove himself from someone else's will. Think about it. It is their will; they can choose to include anyone they want to include, just as they could exclude anyone they chose to exclude. The most he could ever do would be refuse whatever they bequeath him in their will.
2007-11-20 12:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That should be addressed by an attorney. If the family doesn't want to remove him from the will, take whatever distribution you receive after their demise and give it to your favorite charity.
2007-11-20 12:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by AZRAEL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs not do it. When it comes to it, he can refuse to accept the accrued benefits. After all the will might still be re-written or revised
2007-11-20 12:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by pai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should contact their lawyer, if he knows who it is, and explain the situation to him. I suspect the lawyer will ask him to sign something like a quit claim unless he can persuade the parents it is best to rewrite the will.
2007-11-20 12:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by auntb93 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way you can get yourself removed from someone elses will is to have them have their lawyer remove it. Otherwise you are stuck.
2007-11-20 12:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by Eric C 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's entirely up to the person who writes the will.
Note: I am not a lawyer. If you need legal advice you must get it from a licensed lawyer.
2007-11-20 12:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by Citizen1984 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't remove yourself, but you can decline the inheritance.
2007-11-20 12:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by gcbtrading 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋