I have been playing football with my husband and his pals. they play a rough game of tackle which sometimes includes the men "accidentally" tackling the women by grabbing our boobs to tackle us. my husband says its all in good fun so to just deal with it when one of his friends does it to me. does anyone have any advice how to get these guys back? one problem is i'm only 5'4 and most of these guys are big and built
2007-11-20 12:03:02 · 18 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im going to give you a very serious answer. Women playing tackle football with men is a very bad idea. Physically, you are no match for a man, and very few women would be. I used to work with people who had a disability. One guy in particular was in a wheel chair. He was 42, couldnt eat by himself, coluldnt drink by himself, couldnt wash himself, couldnt do anything for himself. He was dependent on his carers for his very existence. At 22 he was playing a game of football with his mates. He was tacked and went down the wrong way. He sustained a brain injury. Thats how easy it can happen. Now he was a man, playing with his peers. You are a woman who is playing with men probably twice your size. You and the other women stand a greater chance of being hurt because you are not their physical equal. You may not end up in a wheelchair, but you could sustain a serious injury. You may think its fun, but the guys tackling you, no matter who they do it, is very dangerous. You really need to talk to everyone in the team and tell them the rules. They must not tackle the women.....it's stupid. Your husband may think its fun, but I wonder how much fun he would think it was when you are sitting in a wheelchair? Some hard and fast rules need to be put into place or you should not be playing. No tackling the women. As a matter of fact, from what I have seen and the amount of people who have sustained serious injuries by playing tackle football makes me think that you either wear headgear when you play, or dont play tackle at all. Maybe touch would be a far safer way of playing, especially if their are women in the team. If they continue to tackle you, then dont play, simple as that.
2007-11-20 12:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A. Adultery is adultery even if it is disguised with tackle football junk.
B. If your husband is grabbing someone elses boobs.. there is a problem here.
C. If this is not a woman writing this but is a stinky old cheating husband trying to get other women to agree with this stupid idea which only a man would think was "fun" .. then sir, you need to rethink your whole entire life.
D. If you are a woman.. and some guy who is not your husband is grabbing your boobs and you are allowing it.then we all know what you are as well.
Gross question and absurd.
2007-11-20 21:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just deal with it he said? It looks like these men are unfairly tackling you. And if your husband has no problem with his friends grabbing your breasts so you will be easier to overcome then I would definitely find a way to get them back. I would find a way to attach 2 short very sharp objects on the outside of your bra. Duct tape them around your torso if you have to. Next time they go to grab you, they'll get a nice surprise.
2007-11-21 00:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by jognmiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda weird that ur hubby would let u play tackle football with other men-my husband wouldnt let me for fear of whats been happening to u
2007-11-20 20:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi look if you want to play like this then expect to be groped, maybe when playing next time a short sharp tap in the guys groin will make up for all you have suffered, accidentally of course LOL â¥
2007-11-20 20:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Your husband sounds really inconsiderate. He wouldn't say the same if someone was tackling him by his testicles. Come on, that's "holding".
2007-11-20 20:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by CheezyYumYums 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tolerate more than i would no one is going to get away with grabbing my boobs. if my husband grabbed someones boobs there would be big trouble. i don't tolerate any bull crap men would do that because it gets them excited. one thing leads to something else
2007-11-20 20:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them where it hurts the most. The sack.... whether you knee them... hit them.... what ever. It will be an example of the pain you ladies feel when the grab you.
2007-11-20 20:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by springful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knee them in the groin- and then say- I thought it was all in good fun!
only joking- try tell them that it hurts when they do that- so unless they want to subject their privates to the same treatment- they should lay off
2007-11-20 20:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by **leigh** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont' wear a bra one day. when they grab they will back away when they feel the real thing! they will be the ones feeling uncomfortable then.
2007-11-20 20:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by justmyopinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋