how do you guys feel about abortion? i mean what if the girl was raped and she was still only like 14 or 15. what if the condom broke? what if they didnt realize how hard it is to go so long with that sort of pain. would you want to go 9 months of pain and suffering with the swelling feet and the aching back and the puking for the first month if you were just gonig to have it (which would be uber painful) and then put it up for adoption? well in this case you get 2 free points for expressing you oppinion so go right ahead and say it. but dont tell me that im wrong for thinbking this way or ill report you. its my oppinion.
blessed be
2007-11-20 09:43:19 · 7 answers · asked by wolfs_moon 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
ok for the guy that said "kudos for having the balls to ask that question" im not a guy but it is a simple mistake. i have no avatar yet so im not going to blame you lol
2007-11-20 10:33:06 · update #1
This is not a debate forum. If you want to know how people feel do a search for "abortion" this question has been asked a million times already so there are lots of answers out there.
Every one is entitled to their opinion no matter what it is. Weather abortion is right or wrong is irrelevant.
2007-11-20 09:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that every one has the right to make their own decision. In real life, there are a lot of decisions that people make in which others do not approve. It is all about circumstance. Personally, I could not have an abortion. I know this... but how would I feel if I got pregnant because I was raped? I don't know. Maybe I would change my mind due to the circumstances. I think that abortion is a very difficult choice for anyone to make. It is not something that people take lightly. I have helped many friends through this. Several have chosen abortion and I have supported that decision. I would never condemn someone for doing what they feel is best for themselves. I have had friends who decided to have the baby and put it up for adoption. That was the best choice for them. There is comfort knowing that the baby that grew inside you is living a good life with a loving family.
There are a lot of options out there and each one has it's merits and downfalls. It all depends on the individual, really.
2007-11-20 17:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think abortion is fine. I have nothing against it. Most of the time, there is a young, unmarried mother that is not responsible enough to support a baby and is not ready. Sometimes she does not even know who the father is, and to top it all off, she doesn't have room for a baby or the money to but the diapers even! I think it is entirely up to the mother. There is always a reason for the abortion. People don't get abortions because they feel like it. I mean sometimes people regret it, but thats because they hear these people that think that you killed the baby and you took an innocent life away, but you have to ask yourself, would the baby had liked the life it was almost born into? Would it have had a nice home? Its own nursery? ( or a shared one for twins) Had the mother prepared for it or was it an accident? Imagine if your accidental 12 year old kid who knows about making babies asks, "Who's my biological father?" Would you be able to tell him that? I have nothing against abortion. It is never the wrong thing to do. It is always up to the mother and what the mother thinks is correct. I don't think you are wrong for thinking this way. It is a very good question.
2007-11-20 18:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am completely against it and your right, everyone has a right to their own opinion. I think that if a girl is raped, adoption. If the condom broke, well thats a chance everyone takes..if your responsible enough to have sex then you are responsible enough to deal with the out come. I don't think that the life of a human should be taken away because someone made a mistake. Its not fair to that would be human. But again, everyone has the right to their own opinion. Kudos for having the balls to ask such a controversial question.
2007-11-20 18:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by hawkeyez_blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe it should be used as a form of birth control, but I do feel it should be an available choice. Some women just aren't capable of being pregnant or having a child - some for physical health reasons, other for mental or emotional health reasons.
That said, it's a decision that should not be made lightly or on a whim. If you "didn't realize how hard it is go so long with that sort of pain", you should not be having sex at all. I believe that if you think you're mature enough to have sex, you have to be mature enough to deal with ANY and ALL consequences that come with it!
2007-11-20 18:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it is a very personal choice. I DO NOT believe in it as a form of birth control but everyone has an opinion. Sex is not just something that happens (generally) in the case of rape that is one thing but with consensual sex then you knew what the chance was, condom or no condom. Everyone has heard of condoms breaking, even birth control is not 100%. Only abstinance is 100%.
2007-11-20 17:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by reba_jr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's never a good decision, but sometimes...in some situations, there are no good decisions. For me, the question of abortion boils down to when life begins. I firmly belive it's at conception, so I won't have one. But, I can't fault someone for choosing abortion, when they belive it's the best option avaiable. Sadly, we don't live in a perfect world, so we have to make the best of we have.
2007-11-20 18:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by mury902 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋