**** for her (which he don't)and if he don't she treats to rise child support and she throws a dam fit She is also telling there kids that there dad doesn't want them any more because he has a new baby which is not true he loves those kids more than words can say but sorry we have a life thats can't run around there world and a new baby to take care of what should i do
2007-11-20 08:36:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is for anyone how answered i have left it up to this do say something to her but he won't and i don't want to get in the middle but if he is not i think i am going to have to
2007-11-20 09:02:04 · update #1
Don't do anything. Rise ABOVE it. Her behavior speaks for itself, and will show her up for what she is, in time. Meanwhile, you will be the caring, supportive partner/spouse. If you give in to her, sink to her level, then you will be no better than she is. Give it TIME.
2007-11-20 08:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her rant and rave all she wants. As long as he has visitation rights, she can't screw with that, or if she does he can take her to court.
And she can make all the threats she wants regarding the child support. If the payments were already determined by the court, again, she can't do squat.
Now, if you marry this guy your income can be combined with his and he then could pay her more money.
As far as her behavior in front of the kids......don't worry about what she says. When they come over, make them feel they are welcomed and just as much a part of the family.
Then that childish behavior she displays in front of them will eventually backfire on her.
2007-11-20 16:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let go of some of that anger for starters, I mean why are you giving this woman so much power in the first place. Try being the bigger more mature woman to begin with, and don't let her occupy so much space in your head. It sounds like you are putting to much energy into her. Try killing her with kindness. Be loving and kind and see what happens. She is the mother of the kid, so she is always going to be there, but it is really inappropriate to be so angry and bitter and ugly around the kids. They don't need to learn that stuff. Good luck to you and I really hope you try a different approach and see what good becomes of it
2007-11-20 16:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. Im not syaing it is right... BUT.. I know you have "staked your claim".. but honey.. she is angry about soemthing. She is ANGRY AT HIM about soemthing. Chances are.. she might have a right to be angry. Doesn't mean she is handling things the right way... but Im just letting you know that it may not be that she thinks she is still with him.. but rather that she feels that he wronged her and he still owes her something.. and obviously he is complying by not doing soemthing. So perhaps she has a valid reason to be angry. Not that you care.. but STILL.. no matter what.. her trashing him to the kids is very wrong.
2007-11-20 17:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beat that ***** down!!!!!!!!!!
no but just talk to the kids and tell em that the whore was lyin and may b try civaly talkin to her about it, sounds like a ***** to me though so it prob wont werk but good luk
2007-11-20 16:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by ShankFoster 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you know what the best thing to do is. i think you've daydreamed about going over there and giving her whats coming to her. some things just cant be handled appropriately by the so called justice system. sounds like you need to take this into your own hands.
2007-11-20 16:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by kat m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have him take her back to coart and get a restraining order against her. making sure that his lawyer has the child support to reflect on how much money he makes and on how much bills he has to pay out. also you will have to deal with this nut until his kids are grown.
2007-11-20 16:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As much as I can see why you would want to do something, you cannot. This situation is between her and your guy. If he is going to do or say something he needs to be the one doing it.
This part is easier said than done, but try to steer clear of it.
With kind regards.....Finn.
2007-11-20 16:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Finn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i see .. it cuz he spend more time with you and the new baby than his other kids . it hurt the kids that daddy is not around and he need to step up be a man to spend more time with his other kids and talk to them show love
p.s. stay out of thir bussiness let them talk it out .
2007-11-20 16:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by YOUANDME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anytime that I have ever seen a woman argue that she is with "so-and-so" it is because he really is.....and he really is with you at the same time. I think he's playing games with the both of you.
2007-11-20 16:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋