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I want to bring this man here from Morocco but I dont want to get married without my parents meeting him first. As you all know Morocco is not a rich country and therefore we are both saving and scraping to gather money to travel. I have found information that shows I have to go there to get him here. Is there any other way?
I want him here with me in america and a visitors visa seems untouchable. How can i get him here without sending him money? i can buy him a ticket, but what about the visa?
any help would be appreciated.

2007-11-20 06:49:46 · 11 answers · asked by yellowcloudwoman 2 in Travel Africa & Middle East Morocco

there is nothing Wrong with me. and No i do not plan on having him here illegally. that is why i am asking.
Many people meet their soulmate online and who is to say they will be in your country. perhaps you are so negitive to this idea because you cannot find happiness within yourself.

2007-11-20 07:21:28 · update #1

11 answers

It isn't likely you will be able to petition for any type of visa without having met the man in person.
You don't have to marry him here (Morocco) in order to petition for him.
The only option that may be available to you is to come here and meet him and his family. Upon your return to the USA you can file for a fiance visa.
Honestly I wouldn't spend anything on him UNTIL you actually meet him in person. It is true that some jerks use others to simply get into other countries. There of course are also many more who don't do this and are kind, sincere guys. Even if a man does marry a woman to obtain residency somewhere that is not really a big deal as long as he remains committed to the marriage also.

Some of these answers posted are loopy. Several of them show that these people have not left their couch in years.

2007-11-20 09:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by ~~∞§arah T∞©~~ 6 · 8 1

You cannot do it, sorry! They will NOT give him a visitor visa if he doesn't have a good reason to go back to Morocco (like a JOB or a business that pays enough $$$$$). It WON'T happen. You don't have to marry him there you can get a Fiance Visa and you will have to marry within three months of him coming to the US but they won't give him that either if you have NOT met in person. The only way you could MAYBE get around THAT is if you were Muslim and stated that you did not believe in seeing each other before marriage but even in Islam you can see the person before you marry them so that won't work out. You can claim financial hardship but trust me, they have seen this scenario way too often YOU WON'T get a fiance visa for him that way either...sure you can pay all the $$$$$$$$$$$$$ for the application to try but there are NO guarantees.

please leave this question open --i will be gone a few hours but i want to come back and leave some more info for you so you can make a better decision on what to do

2007-11-21 01:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sassafrass 6 · 6 0

Sarah is right of course. Getting him here without visiting him first is highly unlikely. Immigration wants to know that there is an established relationship before they issue even a fiance Visa, and even then they may question the situation. I have a friend who has been talking with a man from Morocco for over a year and visited him for 2 weeks there and was still denied a fiance Visa, pending further proof of an actual relationship. I understand how you feel about wanting your family to meet him first, but I don't think you have many options in this case. Best wishes.

2007-11-21 00:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 2 0

you can get and visa and master card in morocco too....just go to the bank and get a different card...why would you pay for an american match making site...why would you want to come to america right now...morocco is not that bad....stay there or fine someone in europe. dont look for "mrs right" just to get a visa....dont you have morals? allah will surely frown on you faking love for someone just to come to america. go to chat rooms and music sites, dont pay for a match making site when you cant meet the girl in person.

2016-04-05 00:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

One correction, there is a way to get married by proxy.....but it would mean that you married him without your parents meeting him, which defeats the purpose. And then u would have to sponsor him which requires money....in other words if u cant really afford to go meet him, then how could u afford to sponsor him? Its only about 1000 bucks for a plane tiket to Morocco... And if he is a muslim then he must support you....so u have a bit of a dilema....please be careful...

2007-11-20 08:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Adam 6 · 7 0

You can't. You must meet in person BEFORE the INS will approve any visa. NO EXCEPTIONS ! His visa will NOT be approved unless he has alot of money in his account. Have YOU even met him ? If you have'nt, I'd look here for another man. Many people in poor countries take advantage of lonely people here as a free ride to America. Of course not all do, but it's very common. There's no way out of your situation. The INS will also want proof of a serious relationship. Records of phone calls / mails /photos...ect...

2007-11-20 07:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by Vinegar Taster 7 · 5 2

Wow another woman about to get used, this is never going to get old. You are pretty gullible. I'm not even feeling bad for these kind of women anymore, as the saying goes "A sucker is born every second"

2007-11-21 19:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Sarah, Adam, terry, and fez, all are right;
be careful, and think well before each step,
wish you luck ;)

2007-11-21 12:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Moi 3 · 2 0

u shud probably go to morocco it is so gr8

2007-11-20 06:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5 1

so i guess you havent met him before? what is wrong with you. your like dating a stranger. get a life. move there maybe he'll turn out to be a rapest and you'll realize it was a mistake and come home and change your mind

2007-11-20 06:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3 9

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