Since I was younger I've had a long scar running down the side of my face from an accident. Also I have scars from my more dangerous (let alone unexperienced) skateboarding days.
I'm afraid to show my scars in public, but lately somebody asked me where I got my scar. When I answered they said it looked cool.
This may be a dumb question but what should I do?
2007-11-20 06:35:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
My daughter, when she was 8, had a malignant brain tumor. They were able to remove it surgically, and she went through 7 weeks of radiation. Because of this, she has a huge bald spot on the back of her head, which will never grow hair. When she was in school, kids would call her "baldy". She stood up in her junior high class and explained why she had a bald spot. They quit calling her names. Now, she is a young lady, but yes, she is embarrassed over her bald spot, (she just got married on 11/17), so she wears her hair either in a bun or pony tail to try to cover it up. So, your feelings are normal, but you will just have to accept the scars. Look at the bright side, you are still alive and healthy, and able to experience fun. My daughter is still alive and healthy, and that's the most important thing, more than the physical scars. Oh, my daughter's scar where they did the surgery is very prominent, and this covers the entire back left part of her head. So be greatful for your health. As you get older, people will become more mature, and not ask embarrassing questions. Answer the questions only if you feel comfortable enough to. I know my daughter answers everyone's questions, because the scars are not her fault.
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2007-11-20 07:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by 520doglover 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to be ashamed of, but if the scar does become a worry for you then why nor talk to your doctor?
There are treatments available to reduce scars if you want to go down that road, you don't need to put up with it if you don't want to.
2007-11-20 10:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by ed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more conscious you are about your scar, the more people will notice. There are things that you can't change. Don't be afraid to show them. They are a part of you. We sometimes forget that being human, we all get scarred in some way.
If you really feel weird about it, use some concealer on it. But I would really suggest just being proud of who you are; scar or no scar!
2007-11-20 06:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by ms_ann20 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why worry what people think of a scar. I was in an auto accident and have a scar across my throat that looks like someone cut my throat like a fish. If people ask I tell them how you got them. I've never had any problems. They may seem important now but they are really nothing in the big scheme of life.
2007-11-20 06:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seriusly don't worry what other people will think. Lots of people have scars. Including me! Some people even find it really cool lol! Just don't make a big deal out of it. There's nothing wrong with them. But if your really that worried about them just make it a lil less obvious by using some foundation. No big deal!
2007-11-20 06:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ashamed of what.
Just live your normal life and don't worry about your scars.
2007-11-20 06:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Fred F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what? That scar is a piece of who you are, and you should be proud of who you are. Look at it like, hey, I tried something out that most kids wouldn't do, because they were afraid of getting hurt. Be proud of who you are, and your distinct individuality that makes you who you are. If someone asks, tell them, but move on to something else! It's really not that big of a deal, even if it seems like it is at the time. If you don't want to say anything to them, just say, "I'm not comfortable talking about it." End of discussion. It's pretty hard for someone to keep talking to you about something when you don't respond. You are you, be proud of you!
2007-11-20 06:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
There is no need to be ashamed.
Scars can be a good talking point and you can tell stories of your skate boarding days, or you can just say you dont want to discuss it.
If the facial scar really bothers you, cosmetic surgery can resect them and reduce their appearance.
2007-11-21 03:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jasper Carrott has a scar - he got it defending the house from terrorists - or so he says!
When Eric Morecambe saw it, he only said one word: Heidelberg?
Make light of the scars yourself and most people will either not notice or not say anything. If they do say something, make light of it.
Just like with all the questions about being fat/thin, boobs, genitals and so on, they are not the things that give the final swing on what people think of you - it is your personality.
2007-11-20 20:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just scars. I think scars are really cool to be honest, they tell stories =). Just leave it, but if you reeeeeally don't like it, try covering it up with some make-up.
EDIT: No, I did not just copy the person above me :P
2007-11-20 06:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋