So I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months and we are really serious, hes 26 and has no children he told me he's sterile and has a very small chance about 10%. He uses steriod inhalers and i guess the doc. told him if he switches to regular ones his chances would be higher. I love kids and I do want them. Yesterday we went out to eat and we were talking about thanksgiving and i said that i wouldnt cook a big meal until i have a family, then he said speaking of that when are u due for your period? and then when we got back home i mentioned my boobs were sore and he said pregnancy sore or period sore? he then kissed my stomach, he has been doing this stuff more often and i know he wants children but is there anyway to boost our chances? we have been having unprotected sex for a couple months now and nothing. Im also wondering if his actions are hinting that he wants a child to? any opinions would be great thanks!
2007-11-20 06:09:39 · 3 answers · asked by TNK 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
sorry i keep posting it, my computer was acting up!
2007-11-20 06:34:05 · update #1
You keep posting this and so I'm responding. (I'm not sure exactly what you are asking, but I'll give it a go.) It sounds like he's open to the idea. If you're serious, go to an OB together and discuss it. A doctor would have much better idea of what you can do than anyone here. Good luck.
2007-11-20 06:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by keshequa87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad that he's open to having children one day. Key words "ONE DAY." Why now? You don't even know this guy. He sounds great but four months in not enough time and the fact that you are already sleeping together isn't great. You should still use some sort of protection, like a condom, for at least a year and make sure you really know each other. I would say it takes 3 years to really get to know someone. You wouldn't want to have a child and have to separate/break-up from this man and then deal with all those issues.
2007-11-20 14:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww how sweet of him...It sounds like he definelty would like to have children with you....you could buy some ovulation predictor kits they sell them at drug stores and find out when you are ovulating and do all of your lovemaking around that time...sit with your butt proped up on a pillow for about 15 mins. or so after lovemaking....Good Luck to you!!
2007-11-20 14:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by It's a Girl!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋