old daughter. She is a stay at home Mom and she does nothing but be a MoM! There are no words to discribe how filthy her house is. Her husband works 12 hour days and he has to come home and do the cleaning and if he eats, he even has to cook. I have never seen anyone as lazy as she. I don't think it is to much to ask that she take care of the house since her husband works. The girls daddy said that her Husband made her this way. I beg his pardon, her laziness started when she was small and no one made her get off her heavy ***. Last March her father moved from one house to another and the entire day...all she did was sit and sit and sit some more. I don't understand anything being so damn lazy that they act like they are even too lazy to walk. she often complains about her weight, well...go figure...vaccuming the floor burns calories, sweeping burns calories, and the last I heard, chewing don't burn calories. How or why in the world would anyone want to be this lazy? Need advice!
2007-11-20 05:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by lucylocket7258 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Let me guess Betty. . . .you are filthly too!
2007-11-20 06:06:48 · update #1
Oh! I forgot to mention. I am engaged to her father..And..yes it is my business when my future step grand daughter is involved..If I have to I will report her to the department of family and childrens services. My God, a 130 lb bull dog stays in the house and poops in the floor. I can only imagine if it gets cleaned up or not.
2007-11-20 06:11:44 · update #2
I agree that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. I don't see lazy when I see this woman. I see a woman who feels trapped and really depressed and I can tell you if you've never been depressed, then you have no idea what a black hole it can be. Could be partly the husband too. You have no idea what it does to you to live with a controlling husband. Sounds very much to me like this woman has just given up. She's going through the motions, taking care of her child, because she loves her, she won't allow herself to let the baby suffer. But the husband, well, he's big enough to take care of himself.
IE: it's more than just laziness. Depression is deep black hole, there is no light in your world, no light at the end of the tunnel, it's just blackness and it robs you of life. I mean you no disrespect, but she needs help, not more judgment. I'm pretty sure she's getting enough of that at home.
2007-11-20 06:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is the story of Mohammed, the prophet of Islam. He was 25 and married a rich 40-year old woman named Khadija. Anyways, I won't, since I'm not attracted to women.
2016-04-05 00:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose there could be some sort of mental block preventing her from really feeling responsible for herself and her family. Maybe much like there is a possible (but rare) condition where a new mother mentally doesn't naturally feel a connection to her baby which quickly leads to depression.
2007-11-20 06:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by FiendFyre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report the CASE to a LOCAL NGO of WOMEN. I am sure , they will take care of the affair to make her a normal woman.Don't ignore the fact that her husband is considerably responsible in allowing her to become sooooooooooooo laaaaaazyyyyyyyyyyyyyyzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!!!!
2007-11-20 06:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I agree with you that it sounds very lazy, but what business is it of yours? Surely it's up to the girls husband to tell her to get off her butt rather than you?
2007-11-20 05:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Plocket 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be postnatal depression. Do not judge others because you really do not know what is going on. You are just on the outside looking in even if you think you have all the facts.
2007-11-20 05:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she got post natal depresion (even with a 2 year old)? Or she has jsut got into a habit and can't get out of it.
2007-11-20 05:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by zebrazoo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1).thyroid problem.
2)post natal depression
3)lack of self esteem
4)abused when she was a child
5)plain lazy...no excuses?
6)best take her to a psychiatrist to establish her state
2007-11-20 06:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by prtpjs 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. It may not be considered a disease but more a habit. Bad habits can be broken.
2007-11-20 06:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is any of this ur business? It doesnt look like you need advice. It looks like all u needed was a place to vent. Mind ur own business.
2007-11-20 05:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Betty 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋