Y'elo,
I'm 16 year old male,and need some help please. The problem is I'm really insecure and self conscious. I always think that people are perceiving me as a weak person who acts like a girl. People reassure me that i don't but i sometimes feel like that. I have very few friends to talk to, therefore i would like anyone who has been or is in my position to help, and tell me about their experiences. I am very depressed and low because of this. I know i might sound stupid but thats the biggest problem i am having. Hence, i feel no one wants to be my friend. Can someone help me and tell me what i am supposed to do. Have you ever been insecure. Please, any males who can answer. Is it due to adolescence, self identity or something? Please help...
2007-11-20 05:25:37 · 1 answers · asked by closed_1234 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
yes you will get over it- i was same now I could talk to anyone without thinking - and im fat and ugly !! but practice makes perfect.
I just talk to anyone in a queue-it doesnt bother me -at your age I used to go bright red.
Set your self small targets - go to a shop and when you buy something add a small sentence like nice /bad weather or if its a woman / girl say their hair looks nice or dress looks nice-
Engage in conversation dont wait for them... lifes too short !
Please try it for me -it does work -within a week your confidence will flow- keep calm and relaxed - add another sentence next time ...and so on until you can just talk to people naturally.
Always be positive NEVER negative even if you dont like someone.
There is no defence against the truth -always feel that in your heart- and you will be a giant.
regards x
2007-11-20 05:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you are shy of the world. I suggest you undertake a long tour lasting about a month. Make this trip all alone. You will visit new places, you will be fully independent, you will meat a good number of new persons and learn a lot of new things from your experiences.This ordeal for one month will bring about a drastic change in your attitude and line of thinking.You will then never think of posting a question like above.
2007-11-20 18:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋