okay so, my boyfriend and i are 18. we want to get married and were trying to have a baby. are we to younge?

Answer 1

You are way to young. Go to college, date each other, get engaged. But don't bring a child into this world until you really know who you are, and know and understand your partner too. Otherwise you will grow to resent eachother and the child. Part of growing up is realizing and making decision on your own. Good luck

Answer 2

I'm not going to sit here and tell you that you are too young because if I did, I would be a hyprocrite. I got pregnant with my 1st daughter when I was 18. My boyfriend and I weren't married at the time but we did get married a month before she was born. We are both 20 now and we just had our 2nd baby girl a week ago. We have a good income as my husband has a good paying job. While I was in highschool, I had plans to go to college and become a nurse but after I found out I was pregnant, I knew that my dreams weren't going to happen as soon as I thought they would. BUT, it's not going to stop me from reaching for them once my 2 baby's are at least in school. If you have a good income and can afford a child and if you don't have any plans of going to school just yet, then I say NO, you aren't too young. You are 18 so that makes you an adult. BUT, although I love both of my daughters VERY much, I wish I would have waited so that way I could have gone to school sooner. But it didn't happen like that in my case and I wouldn't go back and change it.

So if you plan on spending the rest of your life with your boyfriend and you both want children and you are financially stable, then I say go for it.

Answer 3

My instinct is to say you are too young. BUT I don't know you at all. Perhaps you are in a stable relationship, have a stable job/income and are well set up with accommodations. I think if these things are not addressed first it doesn't mean you cannot have a baby, but they are areas that can induce incredible stress on your relationship at what should be a happy time.

I also think too that if a baby is already on the way, these things happen for a reason and you deal with it by accessing the resources that you have available and make the choices that are best for you and your partner. It is no one's right to be opinionated here. Everyone - even at 18 are free to make their own choices and it is lovely to have a unique path as long as it is well thought out.

Answer 4

get married first then start trying to have a baby if you want one so bad. Just make sure you can afford to take care of a child and that you are moved out on your own and such. Take care of yourselves/live with eachother before you do somethint like that.

Answer 5

Yes you're too young, but besides that you don't even know how to spell or use grammar...you should worry about other things before you have a baby.

Answer 6

i had my son at 19.... and got married at 18
but these are a few basic questions u need to consider
1. were are u going to live..
2. do you or Ur fiancee have a job with health insurance
its going to be extreamly hard
but if u are both commited it can be done

Answer 7

you are way to young to have a baby. i would wait until after you have a good paying job and can afford every thing a child is gonna need. for the first year you are gonna need at least $1000 just to buy crib,sheets,dresser,cothes,diapers,wet wipes and any thing else the kid is gonna need.

Answer 8

Yes wait til u are more stable and can afford things.

Answer 9

if you have to question it then you are too young and you are not ready. if you were really ready you would just do it no matter what others think because you feel it is right.

Answer 10

YOU ARE DEF. TO YOUNG!

You should wait a while... Enjoy your life still while your young. Travel...Party... all that good stuff! Wait at LEAST till you two are 23