WANT TO STRANGLE MY HUSBAND! I am 22 weeks pregnant and even though my hubby is really good to me i want to?

Question

freakin punch his lights out today for no particular reason, his existence is just annoying me. I could probably sit down and find a reason but i am not, just chocking it up to pregnancy. I am just having a really bad day for no apparent reason and i just want to crawl under my desk and cry. My poor hubby is catching the brunt of it because he is the only person i can yell at. ANY OTHER PREGNANT LADIES HAVING A BAD DAY AND WANT TO VENT?

Answer 1

I had one of those moments last night!! I just simply mentioned half joking that my husband could have cleaned out an appliance that he had used and was just sitting around for days waiting for me to clean it... well he got upset and made me feel like I don't appreciate him and he's under a lot of stress, etc. Forget the fact that I am 5 days late w/ my first child and have a lot of anxiety and stress of my own... like pusing a baby out?! "I am home all day so why is it such a big deal to clean a stupid appliance out whether I actively used it or not?" But that wasn't even the point... it was the fact that all I ever freakin do is clean clean CLEAN and usually it is cleaning up after him and the dog... soon there will be a baby to add to that list. There is more to me than windex and papertowels dang it! I get tempted to stop cleaning anything and see how long it takes him to realize how much I do to keep the house clean that he doesn't even notice.

Thanks, I needed that ;) Don't get me wrong, my husband is wonderful... but everyone gets on your nerves sometimes! I don't take it out on him though, I just stay quiet!

Answer 2

Dont feel bad its compelatly related to hormones.

I was lucky and haven't had to many days like this but I have had a few.

I was placed on bed rest at only 10 weeks. No work no nothing. My BF took it upon his self to take a second job just to secure our Income and assets ect. So not only on top of working 14 hour days he would have to come home, cook, clean, do his own laundry all the out side work. Had to learn real fast about how to care for our pool ect ect ect...He was amazing. Caved in and catered to all of my cravings, rubbed my back when it hurt dispute he just worked from 6 am to some nights 10pm.

I had a few days were I woke up and I kid you not I wanted to just kill him...Over nothing. I hated the idea he was home I hated the idea of him just being around. Even though when I woke up there was breakfast sitting there for me. I was in such a sour mood I had to leave the house before I seriously just sat there and yelled at him

Its hormones Im sure he'll understand My BF did

Answer 3

Oh my god, I needed that laugh! I'm 37 weeks and my hubby FINALLY learned to just sit pretty and speak when spoken to, breathe when told to and chew the right way, lmao!! I don't know what it is, but, yeah, I could punch him in the face and feel good about it, oh, I'm horrible! Everything he does drives me absolutely crazy. Even when he's being a sweetheart and asks me how I am feeling, it's almost like he's rubbing in my face that I'm a fat miserable cow. I can't take it! He chews with his mouth open and seems to ALWAYS be eating chips and salsa, and the sound of him chomping his food makes my spine tingle, and the hair on my neck stand straight up. I have a 3 year old son, and when I'm laying in bed trying to rest up, I can hear my hubby fuss him and tell him, go watch tv with your mama. OOOOH, THAT DRIVES ME CRAZY!!! Take your kid to get a sundae from McDonalds, here's a damn dollar!! Leave me alone!!!

OK then, I think I've worn out my welcome. Have a great day!!

Answer 4

I never had those days when I was pregnant. I was sick and felt huge but I was so happy to be pregnant (with all 3 of my daughters).
My mom said that she never saw me happier until I got pregnant for the first time. I constantly had a smile on my face. And now "my" daughter is 20w2d and she is the same way. She has some days where she just doesn't feel good at all but she always has a smile on her face.
Leave your poor husband alone. Just be happy that you going to have a precious little baby. Life doesn't get any better than that. (until they are born anyway).

Answer 5

Its a hormone thing. Tell him exactly how you feel and the hostility that your feeling and that you know that its nothing that he's done and you know that your being irrational but can't help the way you feel. Ask for his patients till this passes.
At least this way, he's got the heads up on your attitude and your feelings so a fight doesn't ensue.
I felt this way to during my pregnancy. I told my hubby and he was understanding, so when I had a melt down oversomething silly he understood and I felt better knowing that he understood and wasn't judging me for my silly behavior because I couldn't help it.

Answer 6

dude, stop emotionally and verbally abusing your hubby with your hormonal mood swings, get a grip, or one day, you'll lose him.

Since you can hold it in with others and you let it out with him because you know you can get away with it, then this tells me it is within your control to try harder! So try and find other ways to deal with this! Are you taking a good B-complex and some fish oil (if dr says ok)?

Maybe you might need to see a shrink to see if there are any safe meds for your hormonal rage attacks.

Make sure you're getting exercise, fresh air, enough sleep, surrounding yourself with good company, etc.
Let me tell you missy, since you say hubby isn't doing anything bad, you better learn to appreciate him b/c statistics say, most men won't be there, the majority of women are and will continue to be single mothers unless they are lucky to remarry. So take care of your gold, your hubby and the daddy of your baby. MY boy don't even bang me anymore and won't consider marriage he is so selfish. I see women like you with a man by their side with wedding rings and a man who is there when the baby is coming. You are lucky so get some self-help or pro help. These hormonal mood swings are normal. When my mama had me, she get s angry all the time and threw water in a nurse's face.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I am not pregnant but have had two kids and what you are feeling is so normal!! It is because your hormones are going wild (LOL)!!! Hopefully your husband has a thick skin and will be able to deal with this! It won't last for the entire pregnancy though....your moods will settle down.

Answer 9

T_T
my wife often angry at me but sometimes I'm also not understanding and fight with her
I felt so bad
we are only at 20years old both and dunno what chemicals will ahppen during pregnancy
it's just the feel of vent over nothing just feel like to kill someone
and after birth you will have baby blue where u lost ur love to ur hubby and lost confidence
and we, the hubby have to work hard to cheer wife up

Answer 10

man, I sure feel for your hubby. I went through the same thing with my wife while she was preggers.

Take deep breaths, we don't want to hear about the postal pregnant lady on the news!