i am having a problem i think its serious?

Question

whenever i have sex it wont take me even 2 mintes at other times it takes only 30 seconds or a little bit more my wife says am mean i dont satisfy her and thats true what should i do or what medicenes should i use please help

Answer 1

Use your fingers.....

Answer 2

Ever hear of foreplay? Bring your wife off first by hand or mouth. Buy some toys and learn how to use them. Once she has hers, you can enjoy yours.

There are some desensitizing creams that might help. Use a condom if you aren't already. There is no magic pill, sorry.

Answer 3

I had the same problem as you. My girlfriend complained about not being satisfied because I couldn't last longer than a few minutes. A buddy of mine recommended a product to me and it works great.
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Give it a try.
I saw immediate results. Hope it works for you.
Good Luck.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Why don't you satisfy your wife first, either orally or manually (with your hands), OR BOTH!
Then, after you penetrate her and if you experience a rapid orgasm, why don't you take a short rest and go for another round?
The time it takes to ejaculate will grow for each time you copulate in the same evening!

Answer 6

Practice your Kiegel excercises. This will increase your stamina.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Satisfy her first, then take care of your pleasure.

Answer 9

keep going even if u don't have any more just do what makes her happy

Answer 10

Hello

I would recommend you to go to a doctor and talk about your problem, the doctor knows best. He can really help you and give you the right answers and the treatment.

It's difficult to solve this problem alone, because it takes time and an effort for you both. It can't get solved quickly in one day, but it takes maybe longer time to have good results.

A good option it's when you have a nice romantic dinner, after you both take a bath together. Then you go both to bed and you and he can massage you together. He than can play with his tongue on you and later introduce his penis 4 or times only half of the penis inside you and then after that introduce it all. A good position is when you're upstairs and his down, so you can control the rhythym and he will not come quickly. I takes practice too, and with time and maybe the help of a doctor will give good results.

I hope that you can solve that problem quickly and have a satisfied sexlife together, take care of you. You shouldn't be worry about, because it can come all good if you're confident and searching help, too. Good luck!!!!

What Is It?

Premature ejaculation occurs when a man reaches orgasm and ejaculates too quickly and without control. In other words, ejaculation occurs before a man wants it to happen. It may occur before or after beginning foreplay or intercourse. Some men experience a lot of personal distress because of this condition.

As many as one in five men experience difficulty with uncontrolled or early ejaculation at some point in life. When premature ejaculation happens so frequently that it interferes with the sexual pleasure of a man or his partner, it becomes a medical problem.

Several factors may contribute to premature ejaculation. Psychological problems such as stress, depression and other factors that affect mental and emotional health can aggravate this condition. However, there is growing evidence that biological factors can make some men more prone to experience premature ejaculation.

Rarely, premature ejaculation can be caused by a specific physical problem, such as inflammation of the prostate gland or a spinal cord problem.

Symptoms

The key symptoms of premature ejaculation include:

Ejaculation that routinely occurs with little sexual stimulation and with little control
Decreased sexual pleasure because of poor control over ejaculation
Feelings of guilt, embarrassment or frustration
Diagnosis

Premature ejaculation is diagnosed based on typical symptoms. To understand your problem, your doctor will need to discuss your sexual history with you. Be frank and open. The more your doctor knows, the better he or she can help you.

If your sexual history fails to reveal significant mental or emotional factors that may contribute to premature ejaculation, your doctor may want to examine you. Your doctor may examine your prostate or do neurological tests (tests of your nervous system) to determine if there is a physical problem that could be causing premature ejaculation.

Expected Duration

Sometimes, premature ejaculation goes away on its own over weeks or months. Working to relieve stress or other psychological issues may help the situation to improve.

Other men have lasting difficulties with premature ejaculation, and require professional help. Some men respond to treatment promptly, while others struggle with this problem over a prolonged period. Effective treatment is available.



Prevention

There is no known way to prevent premature ejaculation. However, you should consider the following advice:

Maintain a healthy attitude toward sex. If you experience feelings of anxiety, guilt or frustration about your sex life, consider seeking psychotherapy or sexual therapy.
Keep in mind that anyone can experience sexual problems. If you experience premature ejaculation, try not to blame yourself or feel inadequate. Try speaking openly with your partner to avoid miscommunication.
Treatment

Behavioral therapy is one possible approach for treating premature ejaculation. Most commonly, the "squeeze technique" is used. If a man senses that he is about to experience premature orgasm, he interrupts sexual relations. Then the man or his partner squeezes the shaft of his penis between a thumb and two fingers. The man or his partner applies light pressure just below the head of the penis for about 20 seconds, lets go, and then sexual relations can be resumed. The technique can be repeated as often as necessary. When this technique is successful, it enables the man to learn to delay ejaculation with the squeeze, and eventually, to gain control over ejaculation without the squeeze. Behavioral therapy helps 60% to 90% of men with premature ejaculation. However, it requires the cooperation of both partners. Also, premature ejaculation often returns, and additional behavioral therapy may be needed.

Another possible treatment is prescription medication that helps to delay ejaculation. Delayed orgasm is a common side effect of certain drugs, particularly those used to treat depression. This is true even for men who are not depressed. When this type of medication is given to men who experience premature ejaculation, it can help to postpone orgasm for up to several minutes. Drugs used for this type of treatment include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), such as fluoxetine (Prozac), paroxetine (Paxil) or sertraline (Zoloft); and tricyclic antidepressants, such as clomipramine (Anafranil).

There is also preliminary evidence men with premature ejaculation may benefit from drugs called phosphodiesterase inhibitors, such as sildenafil (Viagra), vardenafil (Levitra), and tadalafil (Cialis).

Some men with premature ejaculation also benefit from reducing the stimulation they experience during sex. A number of creams are available that can partially anesthetize (numb) the penis and reduce the stimulation that leads to orgasm. Another option is to use one or more condoms. However, these techniques may interfere with the pleasure experienced during sex.

When To Call A Professional

Speak with your doctor if you consistently ejaculate before you want to. Remember, one instance of premature ejaculation does not mean that you have a condition that requires treatment. Your doctor may refer you to a sex therapist if premature ejaculation is causing major problems in your sex life or personal relationships or if you would like to consider behavioral therapy