I mean a husband that was authorative towards you.
2007-11-20 01:59:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, this would have shown itself during the dating process. And being the women I am, never would I stand for that. I do not need anyone telling me what to do, and i would never expect a spouse to listen to my every whim and desire for their life. It must be a group effort... Conversation and communication are crucial... Compromise is a necessity in any relationship.. God bless****
2007-11-20 02:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am ashamed to say yes I WAS. I married at a very early age of 16 out of a foster home, quit high school . He was much older than I. We were married for 18 years. The "daddy" behavior escalated when he began to control everything, mental, verbal and finally physical abuse. I escaped only because he almost beat me to death. Do you know why? Because I wanted to go back to school. I am happy to say now, that I have completed my Masters degree in nursing and after counseling, have remarried for LOVE. I am very happy in my life.
2007-11-20 10:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by samantha H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he authoritative towards you, or are you a peaceful lamb? There is no problem being a peaceful lamb when you are not in the presence of the wolf.
Seriously, show him that you have a will, that he is not responsible for you, but he must love you, and respect you as a companion, not a daughter or a servant that must do whatever he wants. If there is love, he will understand, and so will you.
2007-11-20 11:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i didnt marry him but i stayed for 8years and 3 months . I am now single for going on 2 months and having the time of my life . took a long time for me to leave, I decided 3 years ago i had to get out but just got the courage to do on Octoder 6 . Dont let any man control you , u are better than that
2007-11-20 10:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by c_ann0522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every second of the day he's my Daddy!!!! I hate feeling way but that's the way it is!! He tell's me everything his favorite saying is" Do like your told"!! How's that for a Daddy!!!
2007-11-20 10:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by ajjsdj4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. but i had to nip that in the bud. just let him know u have a daddy he is your husband not your dad.
2007-11-20 10:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by playinthegame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....But Im like that and tring to change for my daughter and my wifey I love them alot but I guess were just use to fight.......you know what i mean?
2007-11-20 10:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Micheal J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I made a better choice than that.
2007-11-20 10:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I feel like I have an extra kid sometimes.
2007-11-20 10:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kyle W 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no but i know people who do. sometimes i feel like a mom to my hubby
2007-11-20 10:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋