he says he cares about her and doesn't want to see her hurt. and that he wants and loves our life together should i be ok if he takes her to dinner for her birthday
2007-11-20 00:20:58 · 17 answers · asked by sue w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OMG are you ever naive.
2007-11-20 00:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by $Sun King$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he shouldn't be ready to divorce his wife. What he should be ready to do is break it off with someone that has no respect for their self, or other people by cheating...lying...and dating a married man.
What life could you possibly have together? Can't be very meaningful if the man has his own FAMILY. I am sorry dear, but you are not part of his family and grow some courage and self worth and leave the family alone. By no means is this your decision.
2007-11-20 00:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cantor2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes the situation. After 2 years I would have already demanded the divorce. Maybe he hasn't really moved on. And if he is living with you then no it isn't ok if he takes her to dinner.
2007-11-20 00:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by just me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he wanted a divorce, he would have already gotten it! I mean it's been 2 yrs? What's the hold up...... you ask? He still loves her. So u are the "other woman?" Well he is married you know? So what if he takes his wife out for her birthday. You need to find someone who ISN'T married!! He's trailing u along and u are allowing him to do it........
2007-11-20 00:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tabatha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 14:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by seeley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL I don't want my ex husband to be hurt either, but I sure as hell don't want to be married to him again!!! Of course he loves your life together--he's getting laid regularly, isn't he?? By you AND by his wife! And of course it is none of your business if he takes her out to dinner for her birthday--it IS his wife--and you can think of them afterwards having "great sex and pampering". You ain't the only one, honey.
2007-11-20 00:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister, she is not his ex if they are still married!
You are with a married man who has been having his fun and stringing you along for 2 years! Wake up! You are being used!
2007-11-20 02:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by mikey_fiveoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. Wake up. He has the best of both worlds,. He has the committed house wife and his mistress on the side to get freaky with. Why would he want that to end??? Have some dignity and end it.....
2007-11-20 00:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a wonderful and lovely idea he has. You should send her a birthday gift too.
2007-11-20 00:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means, I am still married either in reality or in his head. It also means that he is stringing you along and not going to marry you. Wake up girl.
2007-11-20 00:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would suppose he could do whatever he wants to do. thats what he's been doing, and why not, you've allowed it. remember though, he is still married to her and could go back to her at anytime. hopefully you will realize that youre being played as the backseat lover. butwhy not let him go after she is the wife and you are not!!
2007-11-20 00:36:24 · answer #11 · answered by jstagirl1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋