2007-11-20 00:17:17 · 26 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We were arguing about him giving his brother money (again) when we barley have enough to live off of. And after awhile I told him that he would probably let his brother "get him from behind" if he wanted it. He got even more angry, alot of mean things were said, then that I probably got an STD from whoring around with a bunch of guys. At the time I had an infection and we couldn't have sex. The infection was from a miscarriage that I didn't pass all the way. (And my husband is the only man I've been with.) So I would say that was the worst feeling ever. Worst "stupid"argument ever. We both said a bunch of things we did not mean. And I don't get so upset over him wanting to help out his brother anymore because he finally sees that we can't help him out EVERY TIME he needs something. But every once in awhile, when we are able to help, it's okay. I love my husband, I look to him as the head of our family and I follow his leadership as a wife should. In that way I gain his respect and he listens to my opinion. We all make mistake though, and we just have to forgive, change for the better, and let it go.
2007-11-20 00:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband has never disciplined or scolded me. He would be talking to the back of my head if he ever did (as I'm walking out the door). He is my partner, my equal, not my father. Partners treat each other with respect.
2007-11-20 08:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont have a husband...but why would a man who loves you dole out harsh discipline, and what does this mean exactly??
as for scolding, you scold a child, not an adult..this relationship has some issues.
2007-11-20 08:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if my husband ever discipline or scolding he would be looking for a new place to live and would nerve see his children again.
A man has no right to discipline or scolding his wife. It should be an equal for relationships.
2007-11-20 08:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would a husband harshly discipline or scold a spouse..this a wack question...get a life!!
2007-11-20 08:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my husband does not scold or discipline me, I am not his child. We are equals and if one of us has a problem, we discuss it the way grown adults should.
2007-11-20 08:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by kei 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband doesn't discipline or scold me. He's my husband, not my father.
2007-11-20 08:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by amyguesswhat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband tried this but that is why he is my ex. I am an adult. No one scolds me. Your husband is not your daddy. He or she has no right to *discipline* you. The fact that you seem to think that it is acceptable worries me.
2007-11-20 08:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I ordered two cakes that added up to $165 after the $35/cake shipping to where he is deployed. he said it was a waste of money, and the size of a large muffin, and wasn't that good. it was for our anniversary, and broke my heart today.
...I'd love to say that my husband doesn't 'scold' me, but, thats what it feels like. I'm very pissed off at him right now, but how do you correct someone who's deployed?
2007-11-20 08:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by stroude20fromhawaii 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband doesn't discipline or scold me. He is not my parent, he is my HUSBAND...and I am not a child, I am grown.
Seriously....your husband disciplines you? And it isn't a sexual gratification thingy?
Wow.
2007-11-20 08:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋