so my parents beat me the olny place i feel safe is at school, i cant take another punch in the face or another burn from a cigarette. it hurts my bf is the only one who makes me feel safe, but he doesnt know about the abuse and i rather him not know but thats not even the worst part, the worst part is im pregnant, o and im only 15!!! so now i have to get examined for my babys sake and i dont want the doctors to take my baby away cuz of my screwed up parents!! HELP!!!!! omg here they come i gotta go!!!
2007-11-20 00:00:45 · 15 answers · asked by i luv david :) (: 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Firstly if school is the place you feel safe WHY are you not there today. You're 15 so you should be in school . Secondly if you are being physically abused by your parents, Im not being funny but if pregnant you are obviously having sex, dose this boyfriend not see the parts of your body that have burns abd bruises. Evidently not. so I have to ask why are you with someone who just wants sex not love. If he cares deeply for you he would have noticed the emotional upset without you telling him. I wish you luck with your baby but think if you are being beaten then you have to tell someone . P.S go to school give that baby a better future than you are having. Education opens doors . Having babies at your age can sometimes close those doors especially without the support of a loving family.BABIES ARN'T DOLLS THEIR FOR LIFE.think wisely make the right choices. You cannt send a baby back when you suddenly want to go partying their life changers . ARE YOU READY FOR THIS RESPONSIBILITY. GOOD LUCK
2007-11-20 00:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I find it hard to believe this for TWO reasons.
1. If your pearents beat you, How do you find the time to get on?
2. Why would you say "omg here they come i gotta go!!!" When, what NORMAL people would do, which is, close the screen o.o
BUT. Since I like helping people, and this sounds like a PERFECT Scenerio.
I would say,
To go tell someone at school ASAP. Wether its a friend, or a teacher, or whatever, Just tell someone.
You then should make sure that your baby is okay, because, If you get beaten alot, then HOPEFULLY your baby will make it.
Last but not least, Your baby WILL NOT be taken away. You and the baby will BOTH (TOGETHER) Be put in a foster home.
2007-11-20 03:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by anchorage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your 15 and wise enough to know you need to get examined for you child's sake, then you should be wise enough to go to a school counselor and tell him/her what your parents do. thats BS, even if you are a young pregnant teen, a foster care or group home is not going to turn you away, if anything they will open the doors sooner.
dont let your parents control the destiny of your child, go get help!
2007-11-20 00:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by tru_blu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, not sure I believe this at all. But, for the sake of both children involved, CPS will not take your baby away, they'll take you and the baby away and put you in foster care.
You need to let the doctor see you and know about the abuse, and let the school know, and even call the police or CPS. Your more valuable than they treat you, theres no reason for you to be secret about the abuse.
2007-11-20 00:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
today or the next day your at school you go to the nurses office at your school tell her you need to talk to her ASAP and alone...explain what is going on tell her your pregnant and need help and then also let her know about the abuse from your parents...yes your parents will probably hurt you if they find out your pregnant and maybe worse to your un born baby...you need to understand this isn't your fault some parents don't understand how to handle kids and treat them...
also let your bf know when feel comfortable
your school nurse will help you fix everything trust me a close friend of mine when and talked to ours when she was pregnant helped her get out of her house and get involved in a great church group
i hope also your bf knows your pregnant i would let him know asap also...and tell him what your plans are you maybe young but you can do this trust me!! and also i forgot to mention this get your butt to the Dr.!!!
good luck and best wishes i hope you give us an update!
2007-11-20 02:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
K you have to tell someone who can help you someone you trust. They will help you. nobody online can help you because they don't no you. Tell your BF later after you have help- from someone so he dosen't panick. You need to get out of your house though right away! Do you have a close relative that you trust? They might be mad a t first but they WILL help you. You just need to get away from your parents so they can't hurt your baby. Belive me telling someone and getting away is only thing you can do to survive this situation.
2007-11-20 01:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by Abigail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...call the police...they'll know what 2 do...this is no stalling matter....tell a safe adukt u trust. But u shouldn't have gone and got pregnant like that you're young...and you still have a long way to go in life...don't screw it up...I wish you the best and please look for help! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!! :D
2007-11-20 03:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to tell some one at school and go to the doctor about the baby you don't want them to hit you and lose the baby good luck
from someone who been there
2007-11-20 00:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Betina S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drea u gots to tell a teacher or a relative cuz i wanna be ur babies godmother =]
so anyways pack ur stuff get a job and move in with ur bf somewhere
2007-11-20 00:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by Majdal♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this isnt funny damn i dont believe you at all they cant beat you too badly if your on yahoo and the ending "here they come gotta go" so fake and you musnt care to badly about people knowing if u announced it on YA you disgust me
2007-11-22 18:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋