not been physically abusive in the past? (Just mentally/emotionally/financially)
Just wondering if this is where you REALLY trust your gut instinct.
2007-11-19 23:38:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
What's the alternative? TRUST IT.
2007-11-19 23:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Abuse is Abuse.....If you really fear someone could easily add
physical abuse to the 'repertoire' , I think it is time to follow your
gut instinct.
You are the only one who can really judge this situation, but your questions lately do not paint a sunny picture.
If you truly fear for your life, and the abuse has been going on for quite a while already.
Then I think you should pack up and leave, once someone develops an abusive habit it is very hard to ever shake that off
especially if you have let him get away with it and 'enabled' it.
Don't run without any money or without a safe place to go though, and inform some very good friends of the deteriorating situation just in case you have to move quickly.
2007-11-21 05:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Human beings like animals of all kinds spent thousands of years honing their instincts. In just the last 2 or 3 hundred years, we started doubting out instincts and look where we are now. Trust your instincts. Sort of like your sub-conscience it is there to protect you. Don't wait, don't hesitate, if this is real for you, get out now and tell someone so that others will know what is going on. You need backup on whatever your instincts tell you so that if something bad does happen and you don't survive others will by knowing they could have helped you to prevent it. And they will know who to go to with the blame. Not that it will help you any, but for the record you really need to tell some one in authority.
2007-11-20 08:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i was in an abusive relationship for over 7 years. i knew he would kill me if i left. i planned my departure for a few months before i left. be careful. save some money, hide it where he can't find it. i hid mine in a patch of carpet i sliced and in the bottom hem of the drapes...places he would never look. i made sure i had bags of clothing and toiletries for myself and the kids at a friend's home. i made sure i told no one except one trusted person of my plan. i also secretly had my mail delivered to a PO box in another town. go with your gut...you don't want to be another statistic. plan carefully. i waited until he was at work, didn't send the kids to school, kept them with me and split. by the time i had the kids back in school, they had written orders from me that no one but me could pick them up. i had to show them my custody papers. i had two girls at the time and one was his. if you need help, email me!!
2007-11-21 09:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust your gut. i left my ex and he tried to kill me. i got a gun with permission from the law. i had to pull it on him one time. he then knew i meant it ,that i was threw with him. if he treats you this way get out. find yourself a safe house that no one will know about and stay until all is well.
2007-11-20 07:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
judging by some of your ?s over the last little while your situation seems to be deteriorating. and you have been comeing ever closer to actually leaveing him. this is my advice you need to get out while the gettings good. the physical part of it sounds like its right around the corner.
please do it for yourself and your kids they dont need that crap anymore than you do. many of us on here care for you and dont want you to come to harm.
GOOD LUCK dear we all care for you
2007-11-20 09:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by snafu 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i did trust my instinct and got the hell out of there with a midnight desperation call to my father who came to my rescue and i've never looked back.
i thank my stars every single day that i got out.
turns out my ex was a baaaad man.
2007-11-20 07:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by chilly 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
yes and I've left that relationship with a ex parte order and some money.
2007-11-20 09:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thought has crossed my mind once or twice in my lifetime.
2007-11-20 08:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mmhmm .... My father ... Although in the end he really did try to kill me
2007-11-20 07:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Holly Cookie Starr™♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋