Heaps. In nature, only those who growl intimidatingly get the space that is normally required to perform acts of kindness - but they don't act gently, of course.
So the thing that sets us apart from the animal kingdom is exactly what you ask:
We risk being seen as weak, as prey, as devourable when we act kindly - so, yes, it takes guts.
2007-11-19 18:57:13
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answered by Tahini Classic 7
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I would think so. If you were in a bad mood and told somebody to f u c k off because thats how you really felt...... well, that doesn't take guts thats just being an a s s. To restrain yourself for the sake of others feelings...., now THAT takes a bigger sort of person.
2007-11-19 18:34:11
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answered by Willowjac 5
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Yes it does. There are so many mean people in this world that they try to trample the good people so stand strong and stay gentle and kind!
2007-11-19 18:25:26
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answered by Linda S 6
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Sometimes it does. Sometimes it takes a hidden strength.
For example.
I always thought that Christians were weak and wimps. I became one last year in June and I have got to tell you it is hard being a Christian. My heart is really in it and I do believe in Jesus but it is hard work. Funny, I never thought I would be this way before I changed.
2007-11-19 22:47:04
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answered by Anonymous
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We don't have to be afraid to be gentle and kind and what others think cannot change this natural born personality.
2007-11-19 22:38:42
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answered by † Iríšh † 7
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i think it does :)
i'm gentle and kind but it just comes naturally
i think if i wanted to hurt peoples feelings i could do that easily anyone can. they are capable of hurting
but people who choose not to really have guts :)
2007-11-19 18:25:33
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answered by ♥ mimi ♥ 7
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Yes, to show a softer caring side of yourself. Sometimes it's easier to act cold and apathetic.
2007-11-19 18:25:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Depends. If ur naturally tough and loud then yes. If ur quiet and maybe kinda shy then not alot.
2007-11-19 18:25:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, because you are willing to stand up to the criticism of others with out getting pissed...
2007-11-19 18:25:44
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answered by Paper.Milk 3
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i am gentle and kind
I have guts
2007-11-19 18:24:38
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answered by Anonymous
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