Crush on my coach.....?

Question

First off im a girl and hes a guy.

I joined swimming this year and the coach I train with is HOT and hes pretty cool, he just graduated from college this year so Id say hes about 21 or 22 and Im 18 so hes only 2-3 years older. Oh and this is a school team although he DOES NOT teach or work at my school.

Now would it be wrong to flirt with him? Or kinda hint at the fact I have a crush on him?

And would it be illegal if anything were to happen even though I am 18?

Answer 1

If you're 18, there shouldn't be any problem legally. Unless your school specifically has some regulation against the kind of thing. Just make sure that if he refuses your advances it's not gonna ruin your time on the team by making it awkward. It's like when you date a coworker but then you break up...the working environment is no longer the same. So if you can deal with that then I'd say go for it : ]

Answer 2

Don't worry about it, your coach probable doesn't notice. Put be cautious, having a crush on a teacher sometimes happens, but don't let anything happen. The vollyball coach at my school slept with a girl there, and he's in jail now, and she's really messed up.

Answer 3

You're Eighteen you are legally an adult, he's lagelly an adult, I don't see a problem. However for the progression in yuor swin team i suggest that you don't hit on/ flirt with your coach unless you drop the team or until you graduate.

Answer 4

He doesn't work for your school? Then how is he your coach? Private lessons? If it's private lessons then no, there is nothing illegal, however if he teaches your SCHOOL team, then yes it can be considered illegal until after you are no longer one of his "students"

Answer 5

just wait till you graduate
it will turn out better