what if your significant other found someone better than you, would you hold it against them?
2007-11-19 17:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
As in, your significant other finding someone they connect with better, would you move on without holding a grudge against them?
2007-11-19 17:46:24 · update #1
Yep. That's called infidelity. It would break our marriage vows to each other and God, and I would definitely hold it against him! Marriage isn't designed for some kind of waiting period before you find someone better. Sure, your eyes may wander, but if your heart wanders, you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place.
2007-11-19 17:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kat1286 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If we were dating, I'd be hurt, but I'd feel like maybe there was someone better for me, too. If we were married, then I would because I feel like marriage is an important commitment. Not to say some marriages shouldn't end, but I think I'd feel really hurt and betrayed if the guy I was married to just decided he liked someone better.
2007-11-20 01:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Serpentine Fire 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They probably did not find someone better, they are just fickle......The best thing to do is get your creator involved in your relationships.....It will work....live a moral life, one pleasing to your maker and then ask him to send you the right one for you...You will even know when that person comes along....It works....
2007-11-20 02:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how the situation is handled. If it's handled in a mature fashion then no. But if she went and played me like a flute, then yeah, I would for awhile, but I'd get over it.
2007-11-20 01:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't hold it against them,people think the grass is greener on the otherside,no one is perfect,i would be heartbroken but unforunatly,thats the deal we are dealt sometimes,we have to deal with it,thats life...xxx
2007-11-20 01:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have him leave me for someone else than cheat on me and make me look like a fool.
2007-11-20 01:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by mooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah...i know that may seem hard but in the end they might be wrong about thinking the other person is better than you.
2007-11-20 01:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be looking for the next best thing.
to answer your question no i wouldnt hold it against them.
2007-11-20 01:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to be better than the other :)
cause isn't that what a relationship is about? being the best for each other?
2007-11-20 01:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by somwone145 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was going to say more but to briefly answer your question , yes.
2007-11-20 01:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by billlucas14all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋