How mad is everyone at the bachelor right now???

Question

I'm wondering about people's opinions. Who did you think he'd pick? What's your reaction to what just happened?

Answer 1

I am mad because Brad kept encouraging both girls to tell him how they felt about him. He played the little game right up to the last minute. I don't think any of the bachelors should just marry the girls because the show ends, but they could continue the relationship afterward and see where it leads. Brad knew what he was getting into when he went on the show. If he couldn't find one girlfriend out of the whole bunch,he is pretty stuck on himself. He not only humiliated one girl on national tv, he humiliated two. If he was not serious about a relationship, he should not have kept telling everone that he was looking for a wife.

Answer 2

I have a lot of respect for Brad to have not allowed himself to be pressured into a relationship. Where did we get the idea that a bunch of TV producers could select 25 people & that one of them HAD to be the PERFECT person for you?!?! That's nuts & that pressure is why most of "The Bachelor" relationships have failed.

I know those girls were hurt, but it would have hurt them A LOT more if he had chosen one of them to save face & then dumped them. Then everyone would have called him a jerk for leading them on. Give him some credit for realizing that this was going too far!

I'm not shocked. They've told us ALL season that this was the most shocking final rose ceremony EVER! My friends & I decided weeks ago that either his final choice would say no or he'd bail. After last week, when he never said he was in love & just kept saying that he followed his heart, I knew that he wasn't going to pick either of them. I would have been more shocked if he had.

The previews kept saying a last minute decision changed everything. I think that he planned to propose to DeAnna, but standing there in that moment realized that it was all hype & his heart wasn't in it. I think that's why he walked away. I think he had to take a moment to decide if it was just cold feet or if he truly wasn't in love with her & he decided the latter. Kudos to Brad for being true to himself.

Answer 3

i was soo mad at the bachelor right now!!! I really thought he was going to choose jenni, up until the last episode.. Where he kept repeating how he really liked deanna, and could imagine the rest of his life with her, and the fact that she fit in the family really well.... I do respect his decision for choosing neither, and not trying to lead them on.. but he so did!!! let jenni tell him how much she loved him, and as well as deanna and to reject them both?? and he was searching for a wife, i saw the chemistry between jenni and brad... everyone else saw it, even the girls on the show!!!! It was just madness.... I really thought he was going to pick someone.. I was speechless.. I don't normally watch the bachelor, i have only watched one season, besides this one and that was last years with Andy.. He choose Tessa, and i heard they went kaput! yeah, maybe being on a show like this doesn't guarantee you true love, but he could at least said i don't feel comfortable proposing right now, its too fast.. maybe we can take some time.. i don't know if in the contract, that it was mandatory to propose to one of the girls.. but dang! That was just so surprising! i did not even see that coming at all! Just insane! lol.. I'm ranting! I feel like i have watched this show for nothing!.don't forget the reunion show is on tomorrow night(Tuesday) should be interesting! Ciao

Answer 4

I'm obviously disappointed that he didn't choose one of them...but you've got to realize that he actually made the right decision for himself. He didn't want to lie to either of them by asking one of them to marry him just for the entertainment value then breaking it off later on. I don't know how long of a time frame this happens over, but it was like he couldn't fathom falling in love with someone so quickly. The commercials of course made the audience believe he'd pick someone...they have to do that to pull in the viewers! But if he feels right about his decision, then good for him. Who are we to dictate his love life to him??

I actually thought that after he said good bye to Jenny and was talking to DeAnna that he realized that he really wanted Jenny, especially after he walked off camera. But it seemed like he had the intention of asking DeAnnna to marry him, but when it came time to do it, he realized that it wasn't the right decision for him. And that's a whole lot better than lying to either of them or leading them on only to break up with them later.

Answer 5

I'm happy with his decision - neither girl seemed quite right. I wanted him to pick Jenni but my ultimate favorite was Sheena. Deanna was awful - couldn't stand her and her attitude from day 1 - was THRILLED when he sent her home. It was the best decision he could've made!!!

Answer 6

If you remember back a few episodes Sheena's Father questioned Brad's sincerity when they had the hometown dates then he let Sheena go hmm wonder if he could have intentions of dating her also she was the one he gave those expensive diamond earrings to

Answer 7

Boy, did that suck. I think Brad thought that giving a girl an engagement ring made him tied to her for life. You can always break an engagement. He really spoiled the show. I thought Deanna would be his pick. It's either that he really didn't want to mislead either girl, or he's not ready for a serious relationship.

Answer 8

I can't believe he didn't pick either one. I bet they are really mad! He got a taste of what it was like to have a bunch of women so now he wants more of that. ha ha

Answer 9

You know, right now I'm just a bit jealous...

Answer 10

Yeah I'm ticked. I didn't see that coming at all.