my husband wanted to do it, my son was sleeping in the next room and my dad was gonna come over for dinner and i wasn't really in the mood so as we were about to i said i didn't want to... i had my reasons so i appologized, said i couldn't and he said thats okay and went to sleep. but now that he's awake he's not talking to me... am i a b*tch for that or is he overreacting... cuz he's done it to me... and i feel that it's fair, but im not doing it for revenge... HELP!!
2007-11-19 16:49:43 · 19 answers · asked by I Dream of Best Answer 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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later this evening after the baby is in bed..put on some sexy underwear and no top and walk around your room, ignoring him..do some straight leg bends and call a friend the whole time never acknowledge he is in the room....when he cant stand it anymore and proceeds to pursue you say sorry i have a headache
2007-11-20 06:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So long as your not doing it out of revenge then it's fine. He was overreacting, he needs to understand that you had your reasons, your son sleeping in the next room, your dad coming over maybe you just wern't in the mood, have a talk to him and try to plan a day where you guys can have the whole day to do it. You could have said something along the lines of "I'm really not in the mood tonight, can I make it up to you on (the day you can) and it will be worth your while" and give him a kiss and let that be. I'm sure he would have been o.k with that, if he wasn't gonna be o.k with it then he has a problem and you need to have a good talk to him about what you both want.
2007-11-20 00:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is over re-acting honey, and no you are not a b*tch for saying no, geez some males are all for themselves and dont care that their women are tired from the daily activities, they dont get it, my ex was like that, he always told me that i did nothing so why was i tired, um hello, kids , a farm to run, school work, shopping(food not retail), the house to run, oh yeah i didnt do anything :)
2007-11-20 00:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Overreacting. If you're not in the mood, you're not in the mood. I'd let him know why though, since it sounds like he's taking it personally.
2007-11-20 00:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by Serpentine Fire 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's marriage tell him to get over it no your not a meanie yr a wife and mom and have rt to say NO
2007-11-20 14:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Deleted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had ALL RIGHTS to say that. It doesnt make you a meanie. Its you body, and your husband has to respect your wishes.
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2007-11-20 00:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♪♫[K]ath² [BUTT '14 ツ]♫♪♥™ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you had the perfect reason and right to turn him down, whether your in the mood or not, I think he got his feelings hurt, he'll get over it.
2007-11-20 14:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥RaCheL♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had solid reasons why not to. Last thing you want is your son walking in and your dad walking in and having to cover your sons eyes.
If you feel gulity, just make it up to him with some kind of special occasion, something kinky and unexpected ;)
2007-11-20 00:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
No you are not mean all this can be successfully enjoyed only by will full participation of both the partners
2007-11-20 00:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by billako 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just talk & tell him exalty why, not just "sorry" & end of conversation. He is upset & having bad thought of you, thinking you are selfish or not caring. Dispense it sooner than later.
2007-11-20 00:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋