2007-11-19 16:16:54 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
every single one of my friends is a non virgin. and they make fun of me and these guys keep trying to get me to do it with them...
2007-11-19 16:22:04 · update #1
No that's not bad! That is how things should be. All your friends made some bad decisions and are going to regret losing their virginity so quick.
Are you ready for a baby and could you support one if you got pregnant? What would you parents think if they found out you had sex? What would your parents think if you got pregnant? Lets not forgot about sexually transmitted diseases too!
I lost mine at 15, and I think I was too young. Watch in a couple years when your 14 and you get to go out and have fun and do what you want while one (or all) of your friends is stuck at home with a kid because they were so stupid to have sex so young!
2007-11-19 16:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by CSF 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! Girl I am 16 and still a virgin, and I knoe its hard with being teased I face theses same people every single day!!! At my school there is a GPA club and that's where u sustain from sex until marriage. Girl sex at 12 should be the last thing on your mind, go to school get an education that's why more important than sex! Education will take you anywhere and everywhere sex will do nothing for you until u are ready for that emotional level! Anyway, trust me, these other people leaving you answers are so right, dnt do it, there is so more to sex than u might think!!! If u lose these so called friends because you wont have sex and give into them, be proud girl!!! Being a virgin is one thing in life u can control, they might say "well ull never be like us" but the thing is they will never be like u" and if they say "everyone is doing it" then say if so go find someone else!!! Virgin 2 Virgin the best sex u will ever has will be on ur honeymoon,u will give a gift to ur husband that no one else in the whole world will be able to touch!!!
2007-11-19 16:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by hunter b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, sex should be the last thing on your mind right now. Your virginity should be something you keep sacred. Once you have lost it, you can never regain it back. Ignore the comments your friends make towards you about being a virgin. the more you let your friends bother you with the comments, the more they will tease you about it. if you let the comments pass, then they will seize away. Probably your friends are just talking about having sex. There was a saying when I was in school, "If you are always talking about it, you're not getting it."
keep your virginity as long as you can and only share it with the one that you truely love and you will know when the time is right for you.
Love doesn't begin at the age of 12.
2007-11-19 16:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Momma of 1 year old twins 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HECK NO. It's not bad at all.
Some ladies wait until they're 20 or more.
You have lots of time. You might not even have grown into your adult figure yet. There's some chance that your body might not have matured enough to be able to enjoy sex properly. Don't even think about taking a partner for a while. Chances are, it's just going to hurt and there's no physical way for you to get what you ought to get from it.
When you find the right guy and the right moment, you will absolutely for sure know it. In the mean time, no one else in the world has any right to tell you what to do with your body.
2007-11-19 17:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tom V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! no that is a good thing you are still a virgin. If you are having sex at 12 years old that is not a good thing. Half of the people your age haven't even gone through puberty. Wait until you feel comfortable and don't be pressured by anyone else. If they continue to make fun of you, call them sluts because its pretty bad to have sex at 12.
2007-11-19 16:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kara 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummm... no. Being a virgin means you've never had sex, which is very good for someone your age. Maybe wait until marriage until you lose your virginity-- You don't wanna be wasting the best day of your life (or the most awkward) on a pointless boyfriend, do you? Just dont ask a silly question like this again.
2007-11-19 16:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if this is a serious question or not.
If it is serious....being a virgin at 12 is absolutely the right thing to be. And for many years to come. Don't be pressured into losing something you can never get back. And I do mean never.
2007-11-19 16:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Steve F 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
omggg...Your 12 years old calm down. Its not bad at all! Stay a virgin until you find the right person. You dont want to lose your virginity because the crowd is doing it, or because your pressured to by guys. Wheres your morals? you shouldnt be worrying about sex right now. You'll regret it if you lose it randomly. You want it to be special and at the right time.
as for ur whore friends...tell them to get checked.
2007-11-19 17:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by PatriciaB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a great thing. It shows you are so much smarter and have much more respect for yourself than your so called friends. Anyone that makes fun of you for that is not a real friend. Don't be in a hurry to grow up. It happens much to soon as it is. Keep being smart and make good choices, you will be much happier in the long run.
2007-11-19 16:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by jess4u2c2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, that is NOT a bad thing at all. It's a Good thing. You want to stay a virgin for like at least 5 more years. I'm 12 right now and I am not even close to thinking about something like that. And you shouldnt feel pressured to do something like that especially at our age.I think that your friends are lying because they feel pressured like you do.
2007-11-20 12:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by hpfanatic5566 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋