Why should be blamed others and yourself, being un-attached, leaving to to God, PONDER ?

Answer 1

What do you see when you close your eyes? And what about when you open them? How dramatic is the difference? We are entitled to our fantasies. Indeed, we really ought to see them as essential to our well-being. What's the point of a life without dreams? It's true too, that some dreams are best left unfulfilled. They are more enjoyable in the imagination than they would ever be in reality. Yet every so often, we have to get a little of what we want, if only to maintain the tantalising illusion that the rest might just be attainable.

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Answer 2

while we might can blame others for things from our childhood, we have only ourselfs to look at in adulthood, we create who/how we are, and decide what will be important to us, what we wish to learn and investigate, what spiritual path we will take