I am 13...HELP
2007-11-19 13:07:39 · 17 answers · asked by Bones 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
sorry if this sounds a little mean but what in the hell were you doing having sex at 13 in the first place! you definitely need to tell your parents...and yall need to decide what your are gonna do with the baby ...keeping it or giving it up for adoption! but i hope everything works out for you and i really hope that the next time you get in bed with someone you need to think about the consequences of the "fun" your having! is it really worth it!
2007-11-19 13:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by jewelry lady! love my job 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You really should have thought about pregnancy B4 you had sex. Having a child is a major responsibility since a child requires all your time, attention and love. But now that the deed is done, my suggestion is this:
If you have a trusted relative that could help you break the news, then that might help to ease things a bit, but not much. Dont expect a joyous acception to this and expect to be treated like you dont exist (or close to it) for a couple of days until things kinda sink in.
Your next step is to make a decision and I am not gonna go pro-life or pro-abortion since only YOU can make this decision. It is your body afterall. Make sure you really think this decision over and Im gonna warn you....its not as easy as it seems.
If you decide to keep the pregnancy, then you need to see an obstetrician for your prenatal care to make sure you have a healthy pregnancy. Hopefully, the father of the child will stick around, but since he is likely young like you are, chances are he will not. Another question: Does HE know you are? Also, are you for sure that you are? How do you know...by positive HPT or delayed/missed period? If its by the latter, then it could be just stress or the fact that your periods are not regular yet.
Good luck and hope all turns out well. Maybe next time you will be able to resist the heat of the moment by thinking about the moment you had to tell your parents about being pregnant at 13 years old.
2007-11-19 21:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your 13, you thought you were grown up and responsible when you were having sex. Be grown up and responsible and just sit down and tell your parents that you are pregnant. Your unborn child should be ur first priority. Do not keep this a secret and risk the health of your child.
You are just a baby yourself but you are about to grow up overnight because this child will need all your time, love and attention.
Good Luck and just tell them
2007-11-19 21:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by kkbaby 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you're kidding right?
i'm 13 too, and if i told my parents that i'm pregnant, they'd think it was a joke. then when they realize i'm serious, my mom would probably go into a coma, and my dad would run after the guy who knocked me up with a hammer.
i don't know how to help you there gurlie, sorry.
edit: well, i hope this helps. sit them down, and just come clean. say what an idiot you were, admit your mistakes. that's all you could do, i guess. start crying, have them call up the guy's parents, just keep asking them if they'll support you. but before you do that, be positive that you are pregnant. get tested, go to a doctor, do something. just make sure you are. jeez, i hope everything works out for you. you should have been more responsible.
but seriously, is this for real?
2007-11-19 21:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Have what you are going to say planned out. They will be upset. They will be shocked. Give them a chance to vent and calm down. Be honest and open with them. The best thing to do would be to let them know sooner than later.
Good luck
2007-11-19 21:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what the hell are you doing having sex at that age, there's so much more out there then young boys, sex is all there after anyway. I feel sorry for you, no prom, no teenage life at all. you'll never have any fun. You young girls are so ignorant now days. tell them, and hope that they will help you. Who ever the father is, may help but if he's young to he will be to busy chasing other girls.
2007-11-19 21:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Nubian Dancer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm thirteen too! My parents would think this was some kind of sick joke, and when they realized it wasn't, they'd prolly go into cardiac arrest. Good luck though!
P.S: Make sure they're sitting down when you tell them.
2007-11-19 21:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Straight out honesty. "Mom, Dad, I need help. Yell at me about it later, but what do I do about this?"
There will be yelling eventually, bu hopefully they'll focus on what to do first.
Sorry you're in this position, I wish I could help.
2007-11-20 11:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really need to tell them,try going to a friends house,and then calling them..i mean it would be better telling them face to face but if you feel like you can't its better that they find out right now..tell a teacher and have the teacher tell them,just let them know so they can get you seen by a dr. asap
2007-11-19 21:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by larkspur 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure you're pregnant?
If so, you just have to sit them down and lay it out there for them. Think about it first, though, and be ready.
2007-11-19 21:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by That's not my name 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋