Anyone 'ave any sucess with that? Did the marriage last?
2007-11-19 12:52:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ United States ➔ Other - United States
get me one why your there. Bride by mail postage must cost a fortune
your right about his pic Chris
Have you tried ebay?
2007-11-19 12:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can work, I know a few couples that are success stories.
There are also a lot of scam artists out there. Do not give out financial information and don't send money.
You'll have to spend time getting to know a few candidates via e-mail.
Remember most of these women live in 3rd or 2nd world countries where life sucks, they have a good reason to want to find a mail order husband.
Plan to visit her. You need to meet in person at some point. Do not be extravagant with gifts (they'll mistake it for great wealth). Dinner at a nice restaurant, an inexpensive piece of jewelry ($10.00)(it's the thought that should count).
Keep your heart and something else under control or you'll get yourself in trouble.
Be careful and thoughtful.
Good luck!
2007-11-19 13:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Freddy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in any case your archives your purely question is approximately stigma? First you let us know your individuals have mail order brides. You let us know of all the justifications why you desire to try this besides (monkey see, monkey do) after which you ask us to talk you out of it.....provide us a destroy! The stigma is that adult men who choose for mail order brides are great lazy adult men. If those women folk get what they desire they stay, in the event that they don't then they go away whilst they get their citizenship. What you, nor your individuals, comprehend is that in case you're from the USA of a then a huge factor of the folk right here have been from foreign places lands, the sole distinction between us and the mail order brides is that those from foreign places, nicely it is going to likely be your infants who're the 1st technology human beings. on an analogous time as we on the different hand are 2d, 0.33, fourth, and so forth. technology. there is not any distinction different than we right here have fought for equality because of fact the adult men right here refused to pay for their very own infants and we've discovered to not be slaves anymore. the ladies folk from foreign places which you deliver into your lives are "offered and paid for". some human beings have a observe for being offered and paid for, now and back it quite is an wonderful observe, now and back a not-so-large observe. yet people who permit themselves be in that place are in that place for their citizenship, for them to have American infants, or to deliver their infants over to be human beings, and contained meanwhile have a husband who will pay for them, purchase them issues, and that they have confidence human beings are prosperous so prosperous is what they are searching for. Even somewhat undesirable adult men right here might suffice as a miles better half because of fact the place they arrive from is undesirable or great undesirable, the foreign places money exchange fee is different and for this reason right here it would be paradise for them. It has not something to do with love. for the reason which you're so youthful, possibly you're able to acknowledge that maximum folk have 2 faces. One backstage whilst somebody is getting overwhelmed up and the different face for the standard public. in case you're American and are having a undertaking looking an American spouse then you definately are the two not attempting stressful adequate, or you sense you do not have any desire for self progression.
2017-01-05 20:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who has had a long and happy mix-race marriage to a Phillipino bride-by-mail.
But have you looked at "the girl next door"?
It smacks of a flaw in you, to have to go this route.
My friend is a great guy, but overweight.
What is your reason for throwing out such a big "fishing-net" to find a wife? It is a gamble!
They say you need to know a person at least two years in order to make a 'til death" commitment!
It is my experience that there are more good women than men, unless you are in a unique situation like Alaska, Antarctica or China!!!
Also, women are more ready to settle down and "nest", for the sake of raising children! They tend to want to get married.
But the average guy is a self centered, immature "user", by comparison! If he can "get some" he tends not to commit!
I know lots of nice single Christian woman who have completely given up on their dreams of marriage.
You need to get out more!
2007-11-19 13:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, i don't see why you'd bother.
Someone who wants to get married tends to want love, commitment, babies...
If the only thing that ties two people together is the fact one wanted to escape their country or escape being a prostitute then how can you trust the love and commitment?
I suppose the marriage might last, but because she was dependant on you and not because she loved you...
And what about the kids asking how mummy and daddy met? "Well mummy was a prositute and daddy was desparate".
If you are just after a girl on your arm at occasions then i'm sure in the long run, an escort would be cheaper.
Get onto some dating services and find someone how is looking for love also not someone who is looking for a green card.
2007-11-19 13:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worked for me. My wife is a Filipina, who was working in Hong Kong when we "met" by mail. I flew to Manila and we were married while I was on leave (I was in the Army stationed in Germany at the time). We have been married for 25 years this past March.
2007-11-19 12:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider it a business deal, what do you have to offer? she wont stay any longer than any other woman if your a fat slob with no future, but she will have citizenship in your country,and vise verse,after all the annoying paper work, lookin for a fat Kiwi or Aussi (looks not importaint) with a house myself, Hell Im a US citizen and I want to leave! Time to liquidate and haul ***!! apply my trade elsewhere, know what I mean?
2007-11-19 13:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even bother? She'll end up costing you plenty even if you form a solid relationship with her... but then she'll age, get cranky and reveal she's married with 3 kids back in Eastern Europe, and want to divorce you for your cash.
Around our way we have places offering 30minutes to 1 hour rentals of jaw-dropping honeys.
2007-11-19 12:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Narky 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will only get burn't. you migth as well focus your energy some where else untill you meet someone. bride by mail you get what you pay for, and love is priceless.
2007-11-19 12:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Soul Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've thought about that but something about that just didn't sound right. Sounds like you're just going to get an imaginary life.
2007-11-19 12:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋