Christmas present ideas for a new boyfriend!?

Question

So I've been seeing this guy for just under a month now- it'll be just under two by the time Christmas rolls around. He's really hard to buy for- he's 18, a laptop dj, likes his white wine and Southern Comfort and owns a car, if those basics help any. The only thing he's REALLY "into" is music, which is why he's so hard to buy for- he has so many CDs and literally thousands upon thousands of songs downloaded to his laptop that it'd be useless to buy him a CD or something. I'm not sure what DVDs he has and doesn't have. Any suggestions much appreciated.

Answer 1

Hi

Although you have only known him a little while try and find out a little more about his interests - there may be something you haven't discovered about him yet!

Here's a few ideas:

Is your boyfriend the outdoor type?

Sure you could go with hiking boots. Always a safe bet and no hiker could have too many. But every guy loves gadgets, right? How about a solar powered backpack? No, it doesn't fly you up the mountain. But it does have a series of small panels on the pack that will recharge all his electronics on the way up.

Maybe he's the intellectual sort?

Ok, some won't admit it. But many men do like to think. Sure, there's evidence to the contrary in any case. But it's Christmas, so how about a little generosity of spirit, here. A fine bestseller or the latest non-fiction book on politics or current events could be just the thing. But it only takes a couple of weeks at most to read a book. A subscription to that obscure journal he's been denying himself will put you in good for a year.

Does he enjoy sports?

A set of clubs is fine for golfers. A new bag is always appreciated. A super lightweight tennis racket can never fail as a gift. But introducing him to a new sport may be the best idea of all. Skydiving is something most athletes want to try but never seem to get around to. Buy him a day at the jump site and he'll get all the adrenaline rush any man could want.

Then again, car racing is also considered a sport. A day at the track driving a machine that goes 240 mph is another way to get those juices flowing. And, unlike skydiving, it's dangerous to boot. What more could any guy want?

Is he a homebody?

Hey, no shame in that. Many men work hard to keep the house in great shape. There is no limit to the gifts available to help make that task easier and more efficient. So, he'll have more time for you. It might be a polesaw for trimming those upper branches so he doesn't have to climb up. Or, it could be a set of flower seeds from around the world to bring color to the entire garden. In this area, there are always a 101 things he wants but doesn't yet have.

Does your guy enjoy traveling?

A cruise is always the perfect choice. Everything from a 1 day excursion to a month or more is an option. He can travel up the coast to Alaska or roast in the sunny Caribbean. It could be a giant five-deck cruise ship or a large sailing vessel that holds only 20 passengers. Of course, if he suggests going without you, you might want to think twice about getting him a Christmas gift at all.

Hope that helps?

Take care

Paul

Answer 2

You haven't been seeing him that long.... so don't spend a lot of money. Get him a $15 or $20 iTunes gift card.

Answer 3

Get him a gift card