Before I got married to my husband, we been togeter for 5 years. can this cause to have a long term marriage? How long?
2007-11-19 09:10:11 · 19 answers · asked by lil_shanshan113084 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is a long-term committment, so it's hard to define a "long term marriage".
A long dating relationship has its positive and negative effects, just like any other type. However, it stands to reason that if you can get a long with someone for 5 years and have always been open and communicating, there is a good chance your marriage could last longer than someone else's marriage where they dated for a couple months and didn't talk too much.
2007-11-19 09:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Harold R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all marriages are supposed to be "long-term" as in "till death do us part"! don't put a year limit or expectation on a marriage - that's ridiculous. some people marry after a month and have successful, lifelong marriage; others wait longer and end up divorcing, and vice versa. it has nothing to do with how long you were together before, and everything to do with the people involved and how committed they are to making the marriage work. never go into a marriage with a time frame in mind. that's just asking for failure!
2007-11-19 11:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by hh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always felt knowing someone longer before being married made for shorter marriages. I think the less time you date the longer it will last, but not too short a time. anything over a yr, and you know this person is the right one or not. I feel that the less time you know them the more you will have to adjust to how they are and in doing this you learn to be more flexible in the relationship. Not as up tight and serious. Don't fight over if the ketchup should be in the fridge or the pantry, just buy two bottles.
2007-11-19 09:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any such factor as a quick term or long term marriage, it style of feels you abandoned her. You lived collectively, yet you have by no potential met or spoken to one yet another? What???? by using fact which you probably did circulate away her in maximum US states you would be considered separated. yet in spite of the actuality that, your marriage in India has not something to do with the U. S. except one among you makes it as difficulty. Like her going to the yank Embassy in India. record for divorce and be completed with it. Its in basic terms honest for the two events
2016-10-02 02:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is evidence that an extended (>2 year) cohabitation before marriage REDUCES the length of the marriage.
Thumbs-down me all you want. It's true.
Be marrying for the right reasons - not just fatigue.
Good luck.
2007-11-19 09:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question makes no sense at all....what is your point...... and yes marriage should be a long term commitment but sometimes it doesnt always work out like that!
2007-11-19 09:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a forever thing to ME.
why would you marry someone without the intent to be together forever? hopefully your marriage lasts until your dying day, otherwise what was the point in getting married in the first place? be hopeful, not all marriages are doomed to fail.
2007-11-19 09:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by RJG♥4ever 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy don't get married. Why change it? Marriage ruins 99% of relationships!!!
2007-11-19 11:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't relay under stand your question. Wen you decide to get marred the idea is to be together forever. Which is the only reason to get married. So yes huffily it will last entel you get old and pass away.
2007-11-19 09:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by peterson_c_r 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"can this cause to have a long term marriage?"
Your question doesn't make any sense!
2007-11-19 09:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋