We've been dating for shortly over a month and spend almost every day together and have the deepest talks and so much fun. This weekend we told each other we loved each other. I feel like i love him a lot and he is the man of my dreams in so many ways but i still have so many questions of whether am really sure.....
2007-11-19 09:06:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we are both mature adults who didnt even want to date each other least of all fall in love....we are both really scared esp now that we both said it
2007-11-19 09:09:41 · update #1
while i think it's too soon to start talking about engagement rings, i wouldn't say it's too soon to say I love you. although, at this point it's more infatuation and extreme liking equaling feelings of love. my husband said he loved me very soon (like, within a month or so of dating), but i didn't say it back right away. it scared me, and i wanted to be sure that i loved him, too, before i said anything. you too are both on the same page, and that's great. however, the love you feel for each other right now will change - it will either fade or it will grow into something that you never even dreamed could be possible. the most important thing is to take it one step at a time, and be smart about this. you two need to share goals and values to make this love really grow into a meaningful relationship with a solid future. otherwise, it will stay an infatuation. be sure to think clearly and do not let your head be clouded with this feeling. good luck!
2007-11-19 11:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by hh 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Falling In Love Too Soon
2017-01-02 05:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that this is not too soon. When i met my partner i wasn't looking for a relationship, I had been on my own for five years and was very happy. We both got on really well, became friends and then it just happened. Within four weeks he had sold his house and moved in with me. We have been together for some years now and are still very happy. Every relationship is different. Some people fall in love quick others it takes time. Don't analyse it so much. Just relax, enjoy each others company and see where it takes you.
2007-11-19 09:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Cinderella 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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We've been dating for shortly over a month and spend almost every day together and have the deepest talks and so much fun. This weekend we told each other we loved each other. I feel like i love him a lot and he is the man of my dreams in so many ways but i still have so many questions of...
2015-08-18 20:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Genny 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. Sometimes you just know. We knew quickly and we've been at it for 20 years. Just agree to take things slow and see what develops. While you both might be having these amazing feelings, a month isn't long enough to really know someone. Have the feelings but keep learning about each other. Good luck :)
2007-11-19 09:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
No I knew I would marry my wife within 3 weeks of meeting her. If your not young then you should know what you want from a man. If he fits the mold and you have done some real communicating then why not.
My wife and I never BS'd we laid all the cards on the table on date 2. Falling in love with her wasn't pie in the sky it was a serious slap in the face then realize you are really in love with her.
You might be in the same situation.
2007-11-19 09:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A few years ago I would have said yes, it's too soon but I know differently now.
It's not too soon, but enjoy it for a while before you make any life-altering decisions.
2007-11-19 09:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It's not too soon! The same thing happened with me and my husband. We fell in love in one month, and we're engaged after 2 months! When you meet the right person, you just know it. Relax and enjoy the ride! :)
2007-11-19 09:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jacqueline D 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
yeah well... for some people, love at first sight has worked. and some people have met the one in highschool! maybe it will work for u... maybe not. but in a country that has the highest rate of divorce in the world, wouldnt u want to be extra sure and give it a little more time? if u believe in cohabitation, y not try living together? it will answer a lot of premarital questions---u'll find out things that he does that bugs u or something that you do that he cant stand. if u dont believe in cohabitation, give it a little more time. just a little bit more.
2007-11-19 09:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by switbaby9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say no only cause it has happened to me. I married my husband a month after we met and have been married over 9 years now. My grandparents married a week after they met and have been married for over 30 years now:) so nooooooooooo it isn't to soon. Good luck to you and I wish you well:)
2007-11-19 13:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by harleymama77 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋