i told her parents they said don't worry they said shes at "a friends" house wut do i do wut if she does it there her parents don't even care and shes like my bff really
2007-11-19 08:59:49 · 26 answers · asked by ☮NeonZebra♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh my god!!! I lost my cousin to suicide.... call her parents again and talk to them, if they still seem like they arent listening, talk to your parents.... wherever she is... go be with her... dont leave her side... people that talk about suicide ARE THINKING ABOUT IT, OR THEY WOULDNT SAY IT,
2007-11-19 09:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Rhonda 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are in school, if her parents won't take you seriously but you take her seriously tell a teacher, or better yet the councilor. Tell your friend you are worried about her. Don't give up just because eveyone says she's looking for attention, if you feel it, go with that. In a case like this it's better to go over board than to do to little and have it end up being too late!
2007-11-19 17:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by velvetca1972 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this is serious. You need to talk to your parents, the school counselor and the parents of your other friends immediately. If someone you love threatens suicide you MUST take them seriously. If your parents won't listen, tell every adult you know until someone does listen. Tell everyone in your circle of friends to not let this girl be alone. Alos, you can search the internet for suicide prevention websites and hotlines. Let her know you love her and that she matters. And remind her that things always get better eventually.
I wish the best for you and your friend.
2007-11-19 17:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 14 my boyfriend/ first love committed suicide my hanging himself and I was the one to find him. I know what you are going through so please take in consideration what im going to tell you. No matter what make sure she knows you are there for her no matter what her problems are. Let her know that nothing is worth killing yourself over. If it is that serious and you are sure she really wants to then call the police and they will take her to the hospital to be evaluated and put on medicine to help her depression. I wish I could go back in time and do things different. Don't make my mistakes.
2007-11-19 17:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by *TiNkSteR <3's *him* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why, oh why, must people these days spell everything like "wut". Do you think it's cute? It's WHAT! How hard is that?
On to the question. You need to tell a trusted adult: your parents, a teacher, a school counseler, a pastor, SOMEONE other than just her parents. Sometimes adults don't take kids seriously until it's too late. PLEASE tell someone-it's important!
2007-11-19 17:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then talk to a psychiatrist or school counselor. Or talk to her parents and tell them your serious. Also, talk to your friend try to see if you can get to the cause of the problem. and tell her how much you care and all that.
2007-11-19 17:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could call suicide hot line tell them what you feel and they might contact her parents and in the end get her some help because even if she is not going to do it something is wrong with her, and we don' t want it to get to the little boy who cried wolf do we ? good luck hon. and keep us posted Happy Holidays.
2007-11-19 17:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that she means a lot to you and how much it would hurt you to know she killed herself...That killing herself is not the answer to her problems.That God would just send her back to earth and she would have to learn her lessons here anyway.Find out what is bothering her so much to be that angry to want to die.Read what you can on suicide, I take suicide very seriously and after the fact it is too late.
2007-11-19 17:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just looking for attention, don't sweat it. People who are intent on killing themselves don't talk about it, and certainly don't tell their plans to others. She just wants you to tell her not to do it, tell her how much you like her, and how life would be horrible for everyone around her if she were gone.
That said, you did the right thing by telling her parents, because why I don't believe she's in danger of suicide, she certainly does need some help.
2007-11-19 17:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
since her parents didnt think u were telling the truth, tell an adult you can really trust or a teacher
I've never really been in those situations but i learned about them in school, i really hope it all works out
2007-11-19 18:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you know her pretty well . If you honestly think she would do it. Then talk to her parents again and tell them to take it seriously.
2007-11-19 17:03:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋